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To : My Soulmate wherever you are
Omg it’s been a long time! How are youu?
Lots of things happened, ahhaahh 😄
Quick updates, i was selected for LeMinerale running squad and got free ticket for 10K at Jakarta International Marathon, woohooo!!
I finished my first 10K race in 1:10:50
I know im not that fast but im proud of myself ehehe
I hope you doing good and healthy, luv you 💗
Typical Muzz couples
What are Hindus and other non-Muslims doing on this app?
Dear @Muzz, could you please explain this?
I have to say… if you don’t like heat and actually prefer winter, you’re not normal 😭☀️
Why would anyone choose cold mornings, dark days, and scraping ice off their car over sunshine and good vibes? 😂
Hello everybody Hope you are all doing well actually I am a divorce and single dad of one son and I am looking someone with serious and in the same situation like me
🌸Dear Muzz Girls,🌸
For your safety, I wanted to share this reminder.
Nowadays, for marriage, not only good looks and earnings matter. Mental health is equally important. Many people are struggling with emotional and mental issues and may be looking for someone to fulfill their personal needs rather than seeking a genuine marriage.
Take your time, ask the right questions, observe their behavior, and protect your peace. A healthy mind, good character, and sincere intentions are just as important as financial stability.
Stay strong, stay wise, and always prioritize your well-being. ❤️
I saw this wholesome video and wanted to share, man's carrying the human species on his back big up his Mrs she's built different NGL. Listening to society isn't always the best idea. Even our Deen teaches that children are a blessing, I've been guilty of thinking sometimes that having more than one or two kids in the future will be a madness, because I was concerned about the stress and compromise that could come with it
Have met bad guy.
Wish soon meet who really kind and respect.
This is something every Muslim man and woman should know. Please read it till the end. The post is a bit long, but it contains valuable knowledge and important information. IN SHA ALLAH🙂✨
The Prophet ﷺ said a Woman was created from a Rib. Everyone QUOTES it, but almost no one understands what HE actually meant.
The Hadith isn’t random. It’s not a comment about biology. It’s not an insult.
It’s a metaphor loaded with psychology, mercy, warning and emotional intelligence.
The Prophet ﷺ said:
A woman is like a Rib. If you try to straighten it, you will break it.
(Sahih Bukhari: 3331)
(Sahih Muslim: 1468)
Wait wait.....✋
Why a Rib?
Not stone, Not iron, Not clay.
A Rib is:
Curved, Delicate, Protective and Essential for life.
It literally guards the heart.
Now here’s the part most people miss it.
The problem isn’t the Rib. The problem is the one trying to force it STRAIGHT.
The Prophet ﷺ is teaching MEN something uncomfortable:
Your frustration isn’t always HER flaw. Sometimes it’s your EXPECTATIONS.
Because when you expect her to THINK like you, REACT like you, process EMOTIONS like you.
"You’re not LOVING her. You’re TRYING to RESHAPE her."
And the Prophet ﷺ already told you the outcome:
You will break it.
Not "it might break."
IT WILL....
BREAK WHAT?
Not her existence...
But her TRUST, her SOFTNESS, her OPENNESS and the RELATIONSHIP itself.
And here’s where it gets deeper.
He ﷺ said:
"The most curved part is the top."
Scholars explained this refers to:
• speech.
• emotional expression.
• reactions.
Meaning: The very things most men complain about are the same things they were WARNED about. The "CURVE" is where personality lives.
So instead of saying: Why is she like this??
The Sunnah flips the question:
"Why are you trying to force what Allah designed differently???
And then comes the balance.
The Prophet ﷺ didn’t say:
" Accept everything blindly."
He said:
"Treat women kindly."
Meaning:
Guide without crushing.
Advise without humiliating.
Lead without controlling.
Now look at our Prophet ﷺ life.
He is the TAFSIR of his own words.
With Khadijah (RA): Loyalty and Reassurance.
With Aisha (RA): Playfulness and Patience.
He never tried to straighten them.
He understood them.
This Hadith wasn’t about WOMEN. It was about HOW YOU TREAT THEM.
When you try to straighten HER, you aren't fixing a DEFECT, you are CRACKING the GLASS.
And once a MIRROR is CRACKED, you will never see a clear image of YOURSELF or HER, ever again....
JAZAKALLAH for taking the time to read it.✨🥰
