All things marriage

ʀᴇᴀᴅ ᴛʜᴇ ᴄᴀᴘᴛɪᴏɴ on Instagram‎: "only "targeting women." .So here it is.This post was made after countless requests from women who said: "What about the men? Why don't you call them out too?" Men are not innocent. We know this. We have brothers who flirt. We have friends who don't lower their gaze. We have uncles who drink, who swear, who abandon the mosque. We have men who gaslight their wives, who do not lead, who expect their women to carry the household while they coast. Men need to own up to our mistakes, but women should do too instead of blaming opposite gender usually. The Prophet ﷺ said: "Each of you is a shepherd and each of you is responsible for his flock." (Sahih al-Bukhari, Sahih Muslim) If men fail to lead, men fail our families. If men fail to guard our gaze, men fail our marriages. If men to lower our eyes, men fail our iman. The sisters often accept the reminders. They cry. They repent. They delete their accounts. They cover up. They leave the haram. They turn back to Allah. But what about the men? Will we own up? Or will we scroll past, make excuses, and say "this doesn't apply to me"? Allah says: "O you who have believed, fear Allah and let every soul look to what it has put forth for tomorrow." (Surah al-Hashr, 59:18) We have all put something forth. Good or bad. The grave does not discriminate. And neither should the reminder. This is not about gender wars. This is about accountability. Men and women will stand before Allah alone. No excuses. No "he started it." No "she was wearing this.""‎

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