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Allhamdullilah Robili Alamim 🙏 For the bad days and for the good days. I will forever be grateful Yah Allah 🙏🙏

If you’re a man with a marriage timeline of 1 year +
Are you straight? How do you talk to a woman for a year whilst keeping it halal.
You could talk regularly for 1-2 months with families involved and get to know someone really well .
3-4 months or max 6–now you’re pushing it.
No amount of talking will guarantee a successful marriage. Just make isthikara and go for it. If it’s not good for you, Allah could stop it within weeks what you can’t even in 2-3 years of talking stages. Ok?
Bye.

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Hello everyone 🤠

Hey Guys, What are your expectations🇲🇦x🇳🇱?

It's been a long time since I last opened Muzz. I was honestly surprised to see so many messages from people wanting to get to know me. Thank you—I truly appreciate it.

A lot of you have messaged me saying, "I love Malay women." Sorry to ruin the fantasy, but I'm actually Siamese-Bidayuh, not Malay.

Right now, I'm working while studying, so that's my main focus. If you're thinking about marriage, I'm sorry, but my heart is closed at the moment. It's not that I can't move on—it's more that I'm afraid. For some people, moving on is easier. For me, it isn't.

What I went through wasn't just heartbreak. It was something that made me fear for my life.

I almost lost my life, and my family was put in danger because of one man's ego. He falsely accused me of being involved with another man. I blocked him because his behavior became completely unreasonable.

After that experience, I no longer want to deal with men like that. Jealousy can make people act irrationally. He knew I was sick, and he also knew I'm not the type of woman who's constantly on her phone. I work, and most of the time I barely have any time to rest.

People call me a workaholic, but honestly, I'm just trying to survive in this economy.

I don't want a clingy man. I don't like men who keep pressuring me to go out or try to push me beyond my boundaries.

If one day I meet someone who feels right for me, I just hope he's responsible, mature, and understands boundaries.

What I dislike the most are men who use religion to impress others but don't actually practice the teachings of Islam. How can you expect respect when you don't even follow the laws that Allah has prescribed?

I want a man who can lead with responsibility, wisdom, and good character—not someone who makes me feel like I have to be the man in the relationship.

I don't mind the age gap. In fact, if he's older, that's even better. Older doesn't always mean better, but I do believe maturity often comes with age. I appreciate a man who understands the responsibilities that come with building a family.

To me, responsibility means being hardworking.

When someone truly understands their responsibilities, I believe they'll naturally become hardworking, trustworthy, reliable, and dependable.

I have a lot more to say, but it's currently 2:58 a.m., and I should probably get some sleep. Maybe I'll continue writing when I remember the rest.

Regards,Fara

I need your help settling a very important internal debate

I’ve never really embraced the beard life. I’m usually clean shaven or very closely trimmed, but this is what my “stubble era” looks like.

So…

🪒 Clean shaven?
Or
😎 Stubble?

This one’s purely about aesthetics and personal preference… Let’s keep it light… my razor is waiting patiently for the verdict. 😂

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