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Nothing against just a positive ✨️
It’s easy to list what you want in a partner.
It’s harder to ask: “Do I bring that to the table too?”
We’re not looking for perfect. We’re looking for real.
People who make time, communicate, and build trust — because that’s what we should offer too.
A relationship can’t grow on expectations alone. If there’s no effort, no consistency, no conversation… then nothing is being built.
It’s about mutual respect, not one-sided demands.
Has anyone ever heard this saying?
"Sometimes, you have to go through a red-flag partner first before you finally meet your green flag partner: someone who gives you a fresh start in life and makes you forget the pain you once went through."
There's also a saying: "After the rain comes the rainbow."
Do you think this makes sense? I'd love to hear your thoughts. 😊
Before you influence someone's life and make them dependent on you, examine yourself first. Do you have any mental health issues? Do you have depression that only affects you? Let your partner know. Don't let them wonder why you're avoiding them and not being with them. Do you have obsessive thoughts that make you think the worst? Let them know. Don't let them think you don't love or trust them. Do you have negative personality traits that prevent them from trusting you and then betraying you? Do you have borderline personality disorder? Let them know. Don't let them know that you love them one day and hate them the next. Don't let someone hurt you and you can't stand up for yourself. Don't do this to someone who has done nothing wrong. Before you decide to make someone dependent on you, consider the consequences of your actions. I know the meaning of suffering well. In short, be mindful of the words and actions that are spoken because hearts are fragile. ❤🩹❤🩹
