All things marriage

Why even bother when Allah gives me zero chances...

Algerian girls here have no value. I've seen many of their posts; they're bullied by people of various nationalities because they looked down on their own people and went to foreigners, who in turn put them in their place. Yes, it's the age of slavery, and these girls have declared war on their own people and even their own country, as they've accepted becoming slaves to all foreigners

Guys, Is having many mutual interests something non-negotiable/ turn off to you? Why?

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I’m 27 and not married (I’ve never been married), but some of the things I read and hear genuinely scare me and make me hesitant about marriage.

Is it true some men are no longer attracted to their wives after they have children, is that really how they feel? Do they truly start desiring the “next young thing” that comes along?

Pregnancy and childbirth can change a woman’s body massively, and it takes an enormous physical and emotional toll. Surely a loving husband should recognise and appreciate the sacrifice his wife has made in carrying and giving birth to THEIR child.

Hearing stories like this honestly makes me:
A) feel put off marriage because I fear ending up with someone who thinks this way 😭
B) feel anxious about having children and how I would be viewed afterwards - imagine sacrificing my body and health to be left feeling this way.

I know every person and marriage is different, but these stories can be really unsettling. They are definitely negative thoughts that need to be pushed out but I just feel like social media, easy access and opportunities for these lustful acts put me off altogether. Why put myself in a position where I could be made a fool and left worse than alhamdulilah where I am now.

Can you all tell me what do you want in your future partner ? And what is a deal breaker for you?

🌸السلام عليكم ورحمه الله وبركاته
💖Alhamdulillah for everything 💖
My name is Md. Nahid Ahmed.
Oh my darling... a few lines for you,

Aharnishi, whose separation I grieve for,
The source of all my joy,
The only cure for my suffering
You are the throne of my lonely night,
My wealth, my love, my moonlight.
My most faithful friend, my soul,
My sultana, my only love. You are the throne of my lonely night,
My wealth, my love, my moonlight.
My most faithful friend, my soul,
My sultana, my only love. The most beautiful of beauties...
My springtime, my smiling darling,
My daylight, my heart, my smiling leaves...
My flower, my honey, my rose,
The only one in this world who doesn't hurt me. I will always sing your praises.
Lover of a heart in pain,
Beloved of tearful eyes, I am happy.

Love is beautiful.
It may be what brings two hearts together.
But mercy is what keeps them together when life becomes difficult.
There will be days when your spouse is tired. Days when you are misunderstood. Days when you both fall short of the expectations you had.
In those moments, love alone may not always feel enough.
Mercy says, I know you are not perfect, and neither am I.
Mercy chooses kind words over harsh ones. It forgives when it can. It listens before it judges. It remembers that every soul carries burdens we cannot always see.
Perhaps this is why Allah mentions love and mercy together.
Love may begin the journey. But mercy is often what carries a marriage through the storms.
May Allah fill our hearts with both, and make us a source of peace for the people we love. Ameen.

Good morning.
I'm looking for a serious person to marry.
I'm divorced with a 4-year-old daughter
and financially stable.
I'm looking for someone close to my age who is also mature and understands married life.
I hope she's from Iraq.

Everyone talks about what a real man is but what defines a real woman