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Assalamu Alaikum! I’m here with sincere intentions to find a respectful, honest, and family-oriented life partner. If you’re serious about marriage, feel free to connect. JazakAllah.
🚨🍿 Ladies and gentlemen… grab your popcorn because it’s STORY TIME! 🍿😂
So yesterday I matched with a man on Muzz. He introduced himself as a 47-year-old engineer living in the UK. He told me he was a widower with two children, spoke beautifully about Islam, family, marriage, honesty, and how he had been praying for a good woman. 🥹❤️
Me? I was like, “Aww, maybe Allah has finally answered my dua.” 🤲🏽❤️
Within a few hours…
💍 “I love you.”
💍 “You’re my future wife.”
💍 “I’m your future husband.”
Me: 😳 “Sir… we haven’t even known each other for 24 hours.”
But I decided to give him the benefit of the doubt and asked serious questions about marriage, his children, retirement, finances, meeting my parents in Nigeria, and our future together.
Guess what?
He answered EVERYTHING perfectly. 👏🏽
I was impressed. I even thought, “Wow… this man is mature.” 🥹
THEN…
The plot twist arrived. 🎬😂
He asked me for **** pictures. 👀
Then…
“Show me your beautiful breasts.”
I politely said NO. 😊
I told him I wanted to save those moments for marriage, In shaa Allah.
Instead of respecting that, he replied…
“Show me if you love me.” 😭😂
Excuse me??
So now love has become an exam? Since when did love require sending naked pictures? 🤦🏽♀️
Anyway… I still stayed calm.
Then I noticed something strange.
He sent me screenshots claiming he had deleted his Muzz account.
Something about the timestamps didn’t make sense. 🤔
Curiosity got the better of me…
So I logged back into my own Muzz account.
Guess what I found?
🥁🥁🥁
His profile was STILL ACTIVE. 😂😂
At that point I started asking myself…
“Who exactly is deleting what?” 😭
Before I could even ask him about it…
POOF! 💨
He blocked me on Telegram.
I checked Muzz…
Blocked there too. 😂😂😂
Alhamdulillah, I hadn’t sent him a single intimate picture.
Not one.
Nothing.
Absolutely NOTHING. 😌🤲🏽
So today’s lesson is…
🚩 Don’t fall in love with beautiful words in one day.
🚩 If someone says “I love you” after a few hours, slow down.
🚩 If someone asks for intimate photos before you’ve even had a voice or video call… RUN. 🏃🏽♀️💨
🚩 If they ask you to “prove your love” by crossing your boundaries, don’t do it.
Real love respects your “no.”
I’m sharing this because I don’t want anyone else to ignore the warning signs just because someone knows all the right words to say.
Ladies (and gentlemen), protect your heart, protect your dignity, and verify who you’re talking to before becoming emotionally invested.
Alhamdulillah for discernment. 🤍
Now… who’s bringing the popcorn for the next episode? 🍿😂
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