All things marriage

I have a genuine question.

A lot of women know exactly what they want from a husband.

They want a man who can provide, protect, lead, communicate, be loyal, make them feel safe, help at home, and be a good father.

There’s nothing wrong with having those expectations.

But when the question is turned around and someone asks:

“Okay, what can your husband expect from you?”

The answers often become very general.

“I’ll support him.”

“I’ll always be there for him.”

“I’ll be a good partner.”

But what does that mean in real life?

Some women even get offended by the question, almost as if asking them what they have to offer in a marriage is an insult.

I don’t understand why.

If you know exactly what you want a man to do for you, shouldn’t you also know what you want to do for him?

How will you make his life better? How will you treat him when life gets difficult? What responsibilities are you ready to take on? What kind of love, care, affection, support, and effort will you bring into the marriage?

This question should go both ways.

A man should be able to explain what kind of husband he plans to be.

And a woman should be able to explain what kind of wife she plans to be.

Because saying “I’ll be a good partner” is easy.

The real question is:

What will that look like every day?

Hey 🥱❤️

Being understood is more attractive than being admired.

When I joined this platform, I genuinely thought it would be a better alternative to the traditional rishta aunties—a place where sincere people could connect with the right intentions.

But honestly, I found it much more complicated than I expected.

One thing I really don't understand is: why is there so much emphasis on a one-on-one meetup before any family involvement? Why?

If the intention is serious and marriage is the goal, then why not arrange a family meeting first? Is that really so difficult?

Being mature, independent, or financially stable is important, but that's not enough for most families. Marriage is not just about two individuals—it's about two families coming together.

No family is going to entrust their daughter to someone without first getting to know them and their family. Family involvement isn't old-fashioned; for many of us, it's an essential part of building trust and taking the next step.

Man..

Close your eyes for a moment.

Imagine your daughter one day falling in love with a man exactly like the man you are today.
Would that bring you peace... or would it keep you up at night?

If the answer worries you, maybe there's something in yourself that still needs to change.

when a man says "i'm hot" and I'll block you straight away
what are they thinking by saying such things?
instead of being amazed, I felt disgusted 🤢🤮
don't be narcissistic please

Alright, as you can see in my profile, im not wearing my hijab yet (maybe there are also girls who are the same as me here). But it doenst mean im a b1tchy girl. So please, after we match and start to talk, dont asking me to "flirting" with s3xu4l topics or anything which always leads to that topic. Disgusting 🙃

Any women also has the same experience like me? 😅🥲

A message a lot of muslim women need to hear: feminists are NOT your friend.

السلام علیکم! زه ۲۵ کلن یم، د کابل اوسېدونکی.
له یوې متدینه او مهربانې ډاکټرې سره واده کول غواړم. ستوري compatibility مهم دی. زما ستوري په عکس کې دی. که ډاکټره یاست یا ستاسو په خپلوانو کې ډاکټره شته، مهرباني وکړئ DM راکړئ. ان شاءالله خیر به وي۔ #DoctorRishta #KabulRishta #HoroscopeMatch #وادهEnglish:
Assalamu Alaikum! I am 25 years old from Kabul, Afghanistan. Looking for a sincere marriage with a female Doctor. Horoscope/kundli compatibility is important. My horoscope is in the attached image. If you are a Doctor or have a Doctor in family, kindly DM me. InshaAllah we can proceed further. #DoctorRishta #Kabul #Rishta #HoroscopeMatch

Godmorgen.