All things marriage

My silence today asked me to speak now.

The Quran emphasizes that speech is a reflection of the heart and a powerful tool that can either heal or destroy. It outlines specific principles for communication, requiring Muslims to speak truthfully, use gentle words, avoid falsehood, and maintain a respectful tone.

Key concepts and verses include:

Speak Good Words: The Quran commands believers to "speak to people good words" (Surah Al-Baqarah 2:83), framing positive and kind speech as an act of charity.

Gentle Speech: Even when dealing with harsh or tyrannical individuals, the Quran advises using gentle speech (Surah Taha 20:44).

This principle is highlighted in the story of Prophet Musa (Moses) and the Pharaoh.

Truthfulness: Believers are instructed to always speak the truth and say words of appropriate justice, known as Qawlan Sadeeda (Surah An-Nisa 4:9).

Respectful Volume: The Quran discourages raising one's voice or shouting unnecessarily, stating that "the most disagreeable of sounds is the voice of donkeys" (Surah Luqman 31:19).

Avoiding Harm: The text strictly forbids backbiting, slander, mockery, and speaking about matters without knowledge (Surah Al-Hujurat 49:11-12).

For further context, you can explore the principles of speech outlined by the Academy for Learning Islam or read articles about the Art of Speech in Islam.

Hi👋

“Your words carry a great message. Marriage is not only about appearance or searching for the perfection created by movies and social media. It is about responsibility, peace, and mercy as Allah has commanded. Whoever seeks a righteous life partner should look at faith and character before beauty. This world is temporary, and what remains is good deeds and sincere intentions. May Allah bless Muslim men and women with righteous spouses and protect them from the illusions of this world that delay the goodness meant for them.”

Is there Ture partner available.. 👀👀

https://youtube.com/shorts/xk1qzdNaARw?si=3zM2VU3Fsnhui9gX

Assalamu Alaikum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh.

Thank you for taking the time to read my profile.

I am a sincere, caring, and family-oriented Muslim man who is looking for a genuine life partner. I joined this app with one purpose only—to find a mature, God-fearing woman for a halal marriage, Insha’Allah.

Assalamu Alaikum.
I hope you are doing well. My name is Buhari, and I am here with sincere intentions to find a righteous, mature woman for marriage, Insha’Allah.

Salaam brothers,

See below for traits that are perhaps deterring matches:

• -filters or distorted pictures
• -endless car pics/videos
• -gym selfies
• -exposed awrah (above knee exposed)
• -exposed torso (maybe not awrah but leaves a poor impression)
• -generic bios: “looking for my passenger princess/travel buddy”
• -smoking/vaping in pictures
• -roadman tracksuits
• -caps and crossbody bags
• -pictures with other women
• -weird poses
• -multiple people in pictures making it unclear who you are
• -silly usernames
• -excessive emoji use
• -social media info
• -omitting of height (own it)
• -poorly written bios
• -no bios/or info tags
• -blurred profiles
• -music

I don’t have a house ✋🏻

I’ve noticed something that honestly confuses me. Why do some men treat someone they’re talking to like an option, while still searching for “the one” at the same time?

If you’re in the talking stage with someone, shouldn’t there be at least a level of focus and intention instead of constantly looking around for something better?

Is it really that hard to stick with one person and give it a genuine chance? Or is it the mindset of always thinking there might be someone better out there that creates confusion?

Just trying to understand different perspectives.