All things marriage

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It makes it easier for us to get to know each other.

يُسهّل عليّ هذا التفاعل ويضمن فهم الطرف الآخر للغة التي أستخدمها بشكل أفضل. هذه هي الطريقة التي أتبعها لتعزيز التفاهم المتبادل وبناء علاقة أفضل. يضم هذا التطبيق 165 لغة في منصة واحدة، مما يُساعد على تحسين التواصل والتفاعلات الأولية.

A man who has truly set his heart on you won't let distance stand in the way.
Here are the signs of a man who genuinely loves you and is serious about the relationship, even in a longdistance setup :

1. Consistently Keeping You Updated Without Being Asked He understands that in a longdistance relationship , communication is the " oxygen " that keeps the bond alive. He doesn't need to be chased or reminded to share what he’s up to.
   Sending a quick message like " I've arrived at the office " is his way of taking the initiative to put your mind at ease.
2. Making Dedicated Time for Video Calls No matter how busy his day is, he always sets aside time to see your face and hear your voice.
   He doesn't just reply to texts in passing; instead, he schedules " virtual dates " so you can maintain quality communication.
3. Being Open About His Social Life A man who is serious about you won't hide his life.
   He happily shares who he’s going out with and who his colleagues are, and he doesn't hesitate to introduce you to his friends or family via video call.
   You feel included in his world.
4. Keeping Promises and Commitments In a long distance relationship , trust is built on keeping one's word.
   If he promises to call at 8 PM, he follows through.
   If an unexpected issue arises, he lets you know well in advance rather than simply disappearing and making excuses later.
5. Showing Care Through Tangible Actions Long distance love isn't just about saying " I Love You " OR " Don't Forget To Eat . "
   He backs it up with real actions like surprising you by ordering your favorite meal via a delivery app when he knows you're working late or feeling exhausted.
6. Being a Good Listener and Remembering Small Details When you share stories, he truly listens.
   He remembers the little things like the name of that annoying coworker , the food you’re craving, or important dates in your life.
   This shows that his focus is genuinely on you.
7. Handling Conflict Maturely When a misunderstanding arises ( which is common in long distance relationships ) , he won't give you the silent treatment or turn off his phone.
   Instead, he chooses to cool off for a moment before talking it out over the phone or via video call to find a solution together.
8. Willing to Make Sacrifices to Meet Up Meeting in person during a long distance relationship requires money, time, and energy.
   A man who truly loves you makes these meetings a priority.
   He is willing to save money, arrange time off work well in advance, and travel long distances just to hold your hand in person.
9. Not Making You Feel Insecure A sincere man watches his behavior out in the world to respect your feelings.
   He won't intentionally trigger your jealousy or act suspiciously.
   With him, you feel safe and at peace, rather than suspicious or anxious.
10. Having a Clear Plan to Close the Distance A serious long distance relationship needs an end goal for when the distance will be bridged.
    He frequently discusses a future together such as plans for marriage, career paths, or Living in the same city.
    He doesn't want the relationship to remain defined by distance forever .

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What can i do to get my own woman
That truly love me

Just saw this on a potential’s profile. My dear, you do not need a wife if you really believe this is what a wife is only meant to do. You need to go back into your mother’s bosom or rather get a maid. I know you men will come to this post to argue. You will all be fine.

I have come across profilea of 18,19,20 year old girls who definitely aren't ready for marriage but want my SC. I'm not a frequent user of SC.
Would someone please help me understand why would I need to use my SC regularly or to be precise why would someone aged 18,19 would be on this app who' claim that they aren't ready for marriage but still are found abundantly here.

I’m 27, Palestinian, born and raised in the US. Any Palestinians raised in the states who are serious about marriage? Let’s talk !!

I am looking a very loving caring person with whom I can marry and live my life happily peaceful.

As someone who’s attended live births and C-sections….seeing some brothers say the only thing women “bring to the table” in a marriage is children sends me into a rage like nothing else does. As if it’s a flippant, non-meaningful contribution.

There’s a reason heaven lies under the feet of your mother. And there’s a Hadith that says women who die in childbirth are martyrs (grade: hasan). Maryam, the mother Isa (pbuh) is directly quoted in the Quran as wishing for death from the pains of labor. (19:23)

Go tell your mother the only thing she “brought to the table” was you. If it wasn’t haram I’d say I wish it was mandatory for every brother to watch a live birth from start to finish before they even dare ask for the hand of someone’s daughter.

May Allah swt guide us to be wise and value the contributions of our mothers, sisters, and wives to the ummah.

Is there a girl want to go with me to pass day piscin ?