All things marriage

Visiting your profile without leaving a like doesn't mean you're not good enough for me at all. Quite the opposite .. sometimes someone exceeds my expectations to the point that I start wondering who might be an even better match for them.
It's often a sign of respect, because I'd rather leave room for the person who could truly make you happy.
Other times, it's simply because the ideas in your bio don't align with mine, or because our preferences and future plans aren't compatible ..especially when it comes to things mentioned on the app, such as marriage expectations and having children..marraige future plans .. etc 🩵

Everyone wants right partner but nobody wants to become that….!!🥺

I think 99% of thr girls on the matrimonial apps are competing for top 5% of the guys on these matrimonial apps and 99% of the guys are competing for top 10% of the girls.

Choosing Partners Expectations are necessary?,??

This is supposed to be a Muslim dating app, but judging by some of the posts, you’d think it was a support group for people recovering from interactions with the opposite gender.

Every day it’s another think piece on why men are this, women are that, and why nobody is worth marrying anymore. At this point, I’m genuinely curious: are people here looking for a spouse, or just collecting evidence for their next gender-based dissertation?

Focus on ur Strength Ladies!!

10 Etiquette Mistakes We Need to Stop Making on Muzz

1-Ghosting:
If the spark isn't there, just say so. A polite "not a match" is always better than disappearing.

2-One-word replies:
You can't build a marriage on "Yeah" and "Lol." Give people actual sentences to work with.

3-The 48-hour delay:
Everyone is busy, but taking days to reply just signals that you don't care.

4-Fake seriousness:
Don’t put "only serious people" in your bio if you’re going to put zero effort into the conversation.

5-Blank profiles:
Expecting to find a spouse while giving absolutely no information about yourself is unfair.

6-Leading people on:
If you know it’s a "no," let them go. Don't keep them on the back burner because you're bored.

7-The Perfect Checklist:
Look for real compatibility and good character, not a fictional character who meets 100 perfect criteria.

8-Match hoarding:
Stop treating the app like a game. Focus on genuinely getting to know a few people instead of collecting matches.

9-The shallow filter:
Don't swipe past great people over a bad camera angle. Deen and values sustain a marriage, not a perfect selfie.

10-Forgetting the goal:
This is for Nikah, not entertainment. Remember there's a real person with genuine feelings behind every profile.

You don’t have to become what your haters want you to be just to justify their hatred, nor carry the shame of guilt for something you never did just because it makes some people feel better about themselves ”وحسبي الله ونعم 😪😪😂😂😂الوكيل فيك يافخري

It all started when someone made an assumption about my colleague. They assumed she wasn’t married, when in reality, she has experienced divorce. The reason for their assumption? Apparently, she just doesn’t "look" married.
The person asked her: *"Tumhari shaadi nahi hui?"

While it sounds like an absolutely usual, everyday question, it stayed with me. As someone who is currently and consciously looking for the kind of partner I want to choose, it made me incredibly uncomfortable. It forced me to look closely at the language that circulates in our society, and the specific words people choose to use.

When people say "Shaadi nahi hui," it often carries an underlying tone of failure. It sounds as if marriage is something literally everyone else managed to do, but somehow, you missed the boat.
It made me reflect on my childhood. I remember an uncle who was 38 at the time. Everyone would say:
"Nadim uncle ne shaadi nahi kiya."
But when it came to his cousin sister, our relative Shareefa, the narrative shifted:
"Shareefa ki shaadi *nahi hui."
This brings up a massive question about the narratives and tones that are active "in the market." Maybe it’s gender-biased, or maybe it’s just deeply ingrained systemic language. But either way, it matters.

Can we please start being more mindful about our language? Can we stop casually throwing around "Shaadi nahi hui?"
Behind that single status, there is a whole lived experience you know nothing about:

Shayd usne koshish ki aur boht bura dil tutha.
Shayd vo apne old-age parents ka dhyaan rakh raha tha ya rakh rahi thi.
Shayd unki health, ability, ya disability ki vajah se their timeline looks different.
And then comes that slightly sarcastic, patronizing tone people use to wrap up the conversation: Chalo chodo, Allah ne chaha toh hojayega.

Beshaq! Allah’s timing is perfect. Pehle yaad nahi aaya when you were belittling the person? Can we please start with genuine duas, good wishes, and actual kindness instead of belittling or looking down on someone first?

How about we start celebrating people for who they are? We can leave comments about their hard work, their thriving profession, or simply how amazing they are as human beings irrespective of their marriage status.

After all, shaadi karke bhi extra-marital affairs hote hain, toh log kya hi haasil kar lete hain? Marriage isn't an automatic certificate of a flawless life.

Let’s start bringing genuine kindness into our words when we talk about shaadi. Words have weight.

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