All things marriage

Salam 3alykom
The more years went by , the more I keep saying may Allah mercy us or rabena yerhmna berahmeto because of what we see through relationships or apps like these

Looking for a counsellor here on marriage counselling if anyone can guide me please

Trust is earned, not requested.
If someone gets offended simply because I ask reasonable questions about their work or background, instead of understanding that I'm trying to protect myself, should I see that as a red flag?
Is expecting blind trust realistic, or is verifying someone's words a normal part of getting to know them ?

Who is awake?

Hay🌹

Sometimes I realize that not all bad situations are caused by men. Nowadays, some women can also be dishonest or manipulative. Just like the saying goes, not all five fingers are the same—there are good people and bad people on both sides.
So please, stop saying "all men are the same" or "all women are the same." Judge people by their character, not by their gender. Respect the good ones, and don't let the actions of a few define everyone.

I have a genuine question for the guys out there.İs there any reason why you don’t make efforts for a relationship even after you like her and you just met ?
Well I have grown up seeing man learning a new language just to communicate with the girl they like.Or leaving a country or care about the details related to that person.
İs this because the love like in the past doesn’t exist anymore or because the ego doesn’t allow?

Hey👋🏻