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Assalamualaikum everyone 🌷
I hope you are all doing well.
This post may feel a little unusual, because it is not meant to be a debate, an argument, or a “who is right and who is wrong” kind of post. It is simply a personal reflection something I have been thinking about for quite some time.
Over the years, life has taught me a lot. With time, I have observed many things: people’s behavior, their relationships, their expectations, and especially the emotional side of life. And honestly, there were times when I felt like I was behind in all of this ,like maybe I wasn’t good enough, maybe I didn’t have what others had, or maybe I was missing something within myself.
Sometimes, a person feels they do not have a close friend to share things with, no company that truly understands them, and no one who really sees what they carry in silence. Sometimes you feel lonely in a room full of people. Sometimes you even start questioning yourself What is wrong with me? Why am I still not married? Why are certain things not happening for me? And those thoughts can become very heavy.
But with time, I have started realizing something very important: Allah’s plans are always far better than our own imagination. What we cry for today, Allah may be protecting us from. What we feel delayed in, Allah may be preparing in the most beautiful way. The peace, the love, the companionship, the soft-hearted person, the safe home, the little beautiful things we dream about if they are written for us, they will reach us at the right time, in the right way.
I am not saying I have become perfect, or that I have figured everything out. I am still learning, still growing, and still trying to become a better person every day. But one thing I know now is that losing hope in Allah’s plan is never the answer. I wrote this especially for those who sometimes feel demotivated, left behind, or emotionally tired. If you are in that place, I just want to remind you: your story is not over. Allah has not forgotten you. What is meant for you will never miss you, and what feels delayed today may one day make complete sense.
Sometimes, the wait is not rejection. Sometimes, it is preparation. 🤍
Girls want rich men with loyalty , even currency notes come and go , LoL !
I don't understand why some girls can't make up their mind. I have been chatting with a girl for some time. She trusted me and shared her number. I live abroad and came specifically to meet her after discussing the plan with her in advance. She then stopped responding to msgs. When I called she excused that she is busy in work and will respond to my msg later and never replied back. I don't understand the mindset of you're not ready then why plan and agree to meet! Feeling absolutely frustrated. Are we supposed to keep chasing them?
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