All things marriage

Assalamualaikum, everyone.

Till now, many of us must have gotten a follow or a message request from a guy named Mani who claims to be a revert and is reaching out coz he needs help. This man couldn't take a NO from a sister who's no longer on muzz/jama. She declined him after talking for some time when he showed his true colors and now this guy is reaching to just anyone and everyone telling a sob story on how he needs help.

I request you all to please report him, block him, and not entertain him.

To take revenge, he may use some messages from that sister and send screenshots - the cheapster he is.

I'm tagging the people he has already reached out and the people whom I'm sure he will coz we usually run in the same circles.

@AZ-CosmicElysian @shaikhuzmajamal @raedb10 @Karma19 @pyaracetamol @Zulqarnayn @mds13

Must listen 💯

Went through a woman’s profile someone written “ i have tattoos, i dont pray, i dont even know when was the last time i read quran”. I dont judge even though it makes someone kafir according to quran and hadith.

But what made me wonder is the next line “ i am dont even celebrate bakr eid (eid ul adha) but i celebrate eid ul fitr and all the other religious festivals equally and also i am not gonna follow pray or read quran moving forward so if you are ok with this then send me the like”

Like i was shocked to hear these kind of bio like where are the muslims are heading wallahi giving dawah also now a days making them feel like we judging them. To be honest most of the people have been like this. May allah guide them show the path to jannah. We thought from the childhood thay women are the one who mainly responsible for raising and protecting the imaan of generations. Now feels bad seeing many people becoming liberal. Wallahi no do not keep “whatever i do allah will see one of my deed and i will go to jannah” no u have no idea bad deeds mostly push u towards paganism.

Asalamualaikum warahmatullah wabarakatuh! I'm new here. Any advice?a

Hiii 😇

Genuine question for the guys here:

Why do some of you get uncomfortable when someone asks, “What are you looking for in a partner?” or “What’s your ideal timeline for marriage?”

I’m not asking you to have a five-year plan or a rehearsed speech. I’m just trying to understand whether our values and goals align before we invest time getting to know each other.

Guys, what goes through your mind when someone asks these questions?

Curious to hear both men’s and women’s perspectives!

Honestly, single life is overrated. Looking for someone to step in and make my daily life a bit more exciting. If you’re the one, please don't keep me waiting. 😉

Instead of saying how are you, it's better to say will you marry me👀

1 mint of lust
1 mint of anger
Could destroy what took years to build

I don't understand why girls use 5- or 10-year-old pictures, or just 1 out of 1000 pictures that don't reflect their real self. This has happened to me twice.

After a week of conversation with one girl, I decided to have a video call. As soon as she picked up, she started saying without me even asking that she was tired, hadn't washed her face, and wasn't looking her best. When she noticed I was losing interest, she started saying that she would soon be getting her British nationality. Come on, this is a misconception. If a person is in Europe for study, they can attract someone on their own qualities, not because of a passport.

I am a 90s kid, and if I am still single, that means I am looking for someone with values and qualities, not shortcuts.

Then there was another girl. When I asked for a video call, she said, "We'll meet in person. I don't like video calls." When we finally met, she looked completely different from her pictures. As a Muslim, I respectfully took her for a meal, paid the bill, and then asked to leave because it was Friday and I had to go to the mosque.

I am not judging anyone based on beauty. I am simply asking people to stay honest and real on these sites. You're asking someone all kinds of personal questions while not being honest about yourself. That is just wasting other people's time.