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Assalamu alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh.

I was meant to be on a date today. Yesterday, a guy liked my profile. We chatted for 20 minutes and planned to meet up. He was using words like "insha'Allah" and "everyone goes through problems and tests." We exchanged numbers for meet up today.

When I knew something was fishy. I sent him a text and hours passed by and he didn't reply. Then I rang the number he provided and it said "invalid number."

He did not block me on MUZZ but he lied about being self employed to working in KFC and at a Uni. He asked me if I live on my own and had "government housing" doing all those checks for his selfish needs.

What can I say. A good Muslim man will be guilt ridden for giving out a false number and arranging a false date.

Alhamdulillah, I'm so so so grateful to Allah ta'ala that negativity happened straight away and not two months down the line plus he wasn't a British Citizen, asking about whether I had government housing like from the Council or Housing Association because rent is cheap by 70% than private landlords.

He lived in shared accommodation.

I know I have to be careful as a single parent not to be taken for a ride. Most single parents have government accommodation. And are in a vulnerable position.

It's so horrible when "Muslims" behave this way. Not "how are you and your kids" but "do you live in government accommodation." All those interview questions.

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Equality in Nikah: Are We Ready for the Full Picture? 🤔

We often talk about equality in our careers, our finances, and our daily lives. But when it comes to the most sacred contract in Islam the Nikah do we apply the same standard?

In the modern marriage landscape, it is considered completely normal (and even encouraged) for a woman to ask for security in her Nikah contract. Whether it’s a high Mehr, a clause requiring a house, or specific financial guarantees, we say, “She has the right to feel safe and protected.”

And she absolutely does. Islam gave her that right 1400 years ago.

But here is the uncomfortable question we need to ask today:

If a woman has the right to ask for financial security in the event of a Talaq (divorce initiated by the husband), why is it considered taboo, unromantic, or "entitled" for a man to ask for the same security in the event of a Khula (divorce initiated by the wife)?

If we believe in reciprocity, shouldn't the contract be balanced?

Let’s break it down logically:

· If the Man divorces the Wife, he often has to pay the remainder of the Mehr, provide maintenance during the iddah, and sometimes provide a "mut'ah" (gift). Financial security flows to her.
· If the Wife seeks a Khula, she is usually required to forgo her Mehr and return the gifts.

But what if we take it a step further?
If the prevailing standard is that "whoever initiates the separation pays the price," then shouldn't the rule apply equally?

Let’s say a Nikah contract states:

"If the husband gives Talaq, he will provide the wife with cash, gold, or a house."

Then my question to the Ummah is:

If a wife takes Khula, should the contract not state that she must provide the same level of financial security to the husband?

Why is this so hard to discuss?

· If she asks for millions in Mehr to feel "safe" from abandonment, why can't a man ask for a clause that protects him from financial ruin if she chooses to leave?
· If a woman fears being left destitute, a man fears being financially gutted.

The Verdict:
True equality isn't just about the rights women gain; it is about the responsibilities both parties share. The Nikah is a "Mithaq" (a solid covenant). If we are going to treat marriage as a transactional security agreement when things go wrong, then the rules must be blind to gender.

Let’s open the floor:
Are we ready to accept that if a woman can demand a "security package" at the start, a man can demand a "security clause" to protect his assets if she exercises Khula? Or does "equality" stop at the wedding altar?

Comment below with your thoughts. Let’s keep it respectful and Islamic.

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Hello everyone, So yesterday I was looking at a pot here on this social side of Muzz .. and I came across one post which blew my mind. It was posted by a girl who was paralyzed and was on a wheelchair... She posted about getting married to a financially stable man... But the comments were horrible.. a person was shaming her for wanting to marry .. was shaming her for being paralyzed.. I can't even imagine how that poor girl felt... Depressing to be honest... 😮‍💨

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