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Top 10 most dangerous jobs in the US with male percentages.

Civilizations are built off the backs of men whose work often go unnoticed.

Likes.. on a deactivated marriage profile

Constantly gettin these 'give us money' ads

All of your problems in your life is because of the sins you do

🤦🏾‍♂️ would you do this even if you weren’t Muslim ?

Can’t wait to announce my Nikkah day with my favourite man and finally save his number as “My Man/Husband” InshaAllah. ♥️🙈🥰

Aah man I regret not having a proper conversation with her!!
She even helped me with her extra sci-Calci that I forget on the exam day...
She tried to have a proper conversation with me by asking about my project but I said ask the proff as I was getting late for my Magrib..
She thought I neglected her🥲
What can I do i never had a conversation with a girl (same age or younger) in my life as my family consist of brothers even in cousins..

Brothers flip the script
Build yourself up💯
Strive, work hard, build something, acquire knowledge and resources.
Become experienced 💯
And especially STOP SIMPING 💯🤝

Definitely no flying today

Y'all probably don't know me enough, if at all, to even hate me, so let's change that, shall we? 🤔

I seen a lot of y'all talk about mahr, so let's talk now.

IF you think the mahr is supposed to be some contingency/back-up plan for divorce or financial hardship and what not, think again. If you were wise and saved whatever symbolic amount it was for a rainy day, good for you, you wicked smaht.

And yes, you're 💯 allowed to yave your demands and all, and we pray you find your perfectly well-suited high-earning match, but as hell-bent as we may be on demanding the letter of the law be upheld, we tend to forget the spirit of the sunnah, and how it is supposed to facilitate ease across the board, including in matters of marriage.

The mahr is an obligatory, symbolic, honorary gift, signifying a man's readiness to take on financial responsibility for his wife. It is neither a financial contingency nor a punitive deterrent, bc the woman can do whatever she wants with the mahr and she is still religiously entitled to full maintenance and provision - food, clothing, shelter, creature comforts etc, and in case of divorce, she still gets all that during the waiting period.

This is not to ignore the reality that divorces happen, and can and often do get very nasty, very costly, very quick, and the woman often gets the short end of the stick. Is it a good idea for her to have her own contingencies in place, some combination of degree/job/investments/assests etc? Hard to argue against it. But you can't operate from a position of fear and make the mahr excessively prohibitive from the get go, and then wonder why things don't seem to make it to the next stage, why the nikkafication ain't happenizing.

At the end of the day, it's 💯 your right, your mahr, your marriage, your life, but do factor in the letter of the law, the spirit of the sunnah, today's financial realities and how they impact you as a potential couple - factor a complete, pragmatic, mutually beneficial, meet-in-the-middle, cost-benefit analysis into your decisions, not some self-sabaotaging whimsical fugazi based on catastrophization, or it's just one of those "the number one leading cause of divorce is marriage" type things, and nobody wins, except shayton and the rest of our enemies.

Moderation is key. Have key, will unlock door.

May Allaah SWT bless y'all's efforts to keep it halaal and facilitate ease in all matters of donya and aakhirah.