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Someone just sent me a NGL 🤭

Smells like a nice perfume, reminds me of moschino cheap & chic. Go to b&m, thank me later.

If he/she doesn't reply these days, don't worry, he's/she's probably busy with the World Cup.

Anyone who is really serious about marriage

Salaam

Take this however you may, just don’t think of it as a universal or an absolute truth as it’s based off of my life experiences.

I just wanted to share one of the lessons I’ve learned throughout my journey of wanting to become a husband. “Please find someone who fits & completes your puzzle instead of trying to shape them into a piece that you want them to fit into” especially past the ages of 25 when frontal lobes are fully developed, it’s a lost cause to expect adults both men & women to change for one another (speaking strictly from my experiences alone)

The most humbling lesson I’ve learned so far is to make sure that the person you’re talking to shares the same fundamental values as you. No it’s not as simple as exchanging “deal breakers”.

I’ve met so many amazing women on & off of this app. Truly, they’ve been respectful, honest & positive. Despite all of this without fail, there has always come a moment of realization for me showing that there’s no potential for marriage.

Most of my matches even reassured me that they’d change for me as they thought they were changing for the better. I actually entertained this idea for the first few times. Soon enough it was evident that even if someone wants to change at their age of post frontal lobe development, they just can’t. Temporarily they’ll try and think it’s working, until they feel suffocated, losing themselves in the process and dimming their light. I’d hate for any man or woman to go through that.

For example, ppl who have opposite gendered besties & are in constant contact with them through insta, snap etc will always continue living their life in such a way as those relationships have been with them for far longer than I will ever be. I’m not even using Islam as a guilt trip tactic, it’s just one of my deal breakers due to me having protective jealousy for the woman I choose to marry. Women can have male friends as long as it’s not my woman 😂

I won’t blame incompatibility issues for 100% of my failures of not having been able to accept any of my potentials in the past. I’ll also take accountability for how picky I tend to be and lean towards being a workaholic which isn’t good for a healthy relationship of any nature. I remember missing out on so many family events due to my work - birthdays, weddings & even family get togethers on Eid at times during my earlier years of career development.

I hope this adds to your journey of finding your Naseeb. All the best, iA Khair.

Anyways enough of the serious talk. I’m officially on vacation starting today 5pm CDT.
Flying to Toronto tomorrow morning at 5:3am & I haven’t even started packing yet. It’s a two week trip to Canada so I’m thinking of packing light & buying summer outfits from Toronto, yay or nay?

Some off the women on here really need to get they head out they *** and act there age. Acting all prestige like your gods gift. Pipe down love your dad’s a taxi drive and your mind a house wife from Pakistan. You all need a reality check.

Am I the only person that doesn’t like the window seat when flying?

I always pick the aisle seat and if I have the window seat I ask the aisle person to switch with me, no one has ever declined 😂.

I’m 5 ft 3 so it’s not necessarily to stretch my long legs 👀, but I don’t like feeling restricted when getting up for any reason and knowing that I feel totally relaxed.

The only pain is that I have to get up for others, but I still prefer it. Sometimes I just scrunch my minature legs up and they squeeze past 😂.

Imagine logging onto a community app just to yell at an entire gender. Hope your day gets better 😇

I went scuba diving yesterday, ticked off my bucket list.

At times I felt was going to kick the bucket under the water, lol.

Which would you rather own:
a mansion
or
a high-security vault the size of that mansion? 🤔