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Salam if any Pakistani girl intersted in marriage talk with me only serious

met a man 2 years ago.. i told him I can marry at least after 2 years bcs I had to deal with study and stuff.. He also said that he needed to save money bcs he was not financially ready for the wedding etc.. We agreed and we kept in touch for 2 years. 6 months ago he was fired from his job and we were still talking by then.. suddenly he took step back.. communicating was getting worse and saying that he's gonna focus on looking for job, etc. Saying he isn't financially ready for marriage. .. 😂.. don't we know from the beginning the he isn't financially ready yet? such a coward

He liked me today, we matched.
Then he suggested we meet same day, I find it weird.
His reason? He’s based in Abuja and he’s in Lagos for a meeting. I told him I’m working and I’ll be too tired to meet up after work. Instead of responding he unmatched.

I’ve not stopped thinking about it because I can’t make sense of it.

Who would care to help me understand?

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<calling 4 help, pls dont sugarcoat too much on ur advises, but kind words do help>

alhmdllh been divorced 4 2 years, with a pair of kids. 10 y/o 👧 and 12 y/o 👦. feeling down lately, after comparing my life with friends. have been putting them as benchmark to keep me grounded. thought i've been doing good, but my teeth are wearing out, and skin is darker with scars. dont know how to make use of make up, and tends to get pimple easily. but embracing it as it is, as running from tabarruj. not a beauty, all this while have been holding on to my perfect body: turning into 40s next year, with pot-bellied. hair is frizzy, but adoring bachelors, n really hate divorcees

feeling like been sucked into darkhole, prayers r not up to 5 daily since last 3 months, but been learning new doas and surahs to keep up. i know its the pillar, i knoww. thought i'm a good mom, but i cursed my kids, burn out, son had fractured once 😭😭 i know HE accepted all my supplications after all the hardworks, but running out of energy. ex's family keep teaching bad behaviour to the kids. been called to son's school last week.

at first i thought its just the menses drama, but its not. been to councillor, i think i dont hve partner to vent it out. been rewarding myself, but seems like the burden wont fade. usually it wears off when i typed without posting or scroll on others post, but this time have been editing 4 5 times.

had cut off relationship with mom, cuz she's hard to be loved. kind of feeling offended with dad and siblings, the chemistry isnt really there: sister talked about mom behind her back with aunt, bro talked about me with dad behind my back. all got proofs.

tired of this world. i dont do make up, but i put smiles on my face. i think i own HIS heaven, but with all these?

tq

sleepy 🫩

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