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Uncomfortable Truths

I know many of us are probably tired of hearing about the Discord scandal, but after reading yesterday’s posts, I couldn’t ignore what I see as a glaring <CUSTOM_BOLD>double standard within our Jamaa community.

As one of the sisters rightly mentioned, every single one of us is in desperate need of Allah’s mercy. None of us has been promised Jannah, and none of us should walk around as though we have a golden ticket.

So here’s my question.

Why is it that one person can say deeply offensive things about the disabled community under the guise of “rage bait,” apologise afterwards, and then be embraced because people believe he has changed?

Yet others are told they are beyond redemption, even when they apologise?

Who are we to judge the sincerity of someone’s repentance or what is in their heart? We are not Allah. If we believe in tawbah, then surely we have to leave the acceptance of that tawbah to Him.

Shouldn’t everyone be given the opportunity to change?

Or is redemption only available to those who are popular?

Perhaps the “rage bait” post about people with severe disabilities being used for experimentation and that they are barely human, only affected a small number of people on this app because, alhamdulillah, many of us have been blessed with good health and have never had to experience life with a disability. It can be difficult to truly understand someone else’s pain when you’ve never lived it.

I’ve only spoken to a small number of people with disabilities on this platform. To be honest, I don’t even like using the word “disability,” but for the sake of this discussion, it is what it is.

Losing my hearing later in life completely changed my perspective. It made me appreciate countless blessings that I had once taken for granted and reminded me just how quickly life can change. None of us knows what Allah has written for tomorrow.

The Discord messages were undeniably wrong. Hurtful things were said, and nobody should defend that.

But where do we draw the line?

Why is one incident remembered as a mistake someone has grown from, while another becomes a permanent label attached to people forever?

Two wrongs never make a right.

Everyone involved will answer to Allah for what they said and did. But what genuinely confuses me is the completely different standard being applied. One person is almost celebrated on this platform after apologising, while others are treated as though they’ve committed crimes far beyond what actually happened. That inconsistency is difficult to ignore.

I remember the anonymous post that was made last year about disabled people, yet I don’t remember seeing the same level of outrage.

So I have to ask…

Do the feelings of disabled people matter less?

Does popularity determine whose pain deserves defending?

Because from where I’m standing, the response doesn’t seem to be based on principle. It seems to depend on who the people involved are.

I’ve had vile things said about me on this platform. Horrible comments were even made about my children. Only a small handful of people spoke up.

<CUSTOM_BOLD>Maybe I’m just not “cool enough.”

<CUSTOM_BOLD>Maybe I’m not part of the popular crowd.

And that’s okay.

I’d rather be unpopular while speaking against hypocrisy than stay silent simply because it’s easier.

As I said on another post, please don’t think you are better than those who were exposed simply because your sins are different, or because Allah, in His immense mercy, chose to conceal yours. The fact that our faults remain hidden is a blessing, not a badge of superiority.

At the end of the day, who you choose to forgive is entirely your decision. Nobody is obligated to reconcile with someone who has hurt them. My point isn’t to tell anyone who they must forgive. I’m simply pointing out what appears to be a double standard when it comes to who is offered forgiveness and who isn’t.

If we’re going to call people to accountability, then let’s do it consistently. If we’re going to believe in forgiveness, then let’s apply it consistently.
If we’re going to speak about justice, then let’s make sure it isn’t influenced by popularity.

May Allah guide every one of us, soften our hearts, help us be fair in our judgments, and grant sincere repentance to all who seek it.

Ameen. 🤲🏻

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