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The hardest decisions aren't blocked by confusion—they're delayed by comfort.
We know what we need to do, but delay taking action because we are negotiating with comfort.

How important is it to you that your future spouse prays their daily Salat?
Could you see yourself being married to someone who is different from you in that regard? Like a person who doesn't pray regularly getting married to someone who always prays for instance.
Or is it best to stick to someone who's like you when it comes to Salat?

The modern dating market is broken because it's flooded with egos. Too many women adopt feminism as a personality trait and wonder why men walk away, so men aren't looking for a debate partner. At the same time, too many men refuse to level up financially or emotionally, expecting a traditional woman while bringing absolutely nothing to the table. When women prioritize an ideology and men prioritize their pride over actual effort, both sides stay single.

Feminism promised women independence, but in the dating market, it mostly just gave them an inflated ego that pushes good men away.

It is ironic how modern feminists claim they don't need men, yet spend all their time online complaining about them.

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Storytime: Someone I know was recently set up with a guy who casually dropped the fact that rabbits, squirrels, and other forest creatures apparently have midnight chats with him and bring him snacks… and he genuinely saw nothing unusual about this. 😭

Part of me wonders if he was deliberately trying to push her away, because surely someone wouldn’t casually say things like that without realizing how it sounds 😭 But then again, the fact that he kept reaching out after she ended it makes me question that theory.

Who also has insomnia and is up right now??

I met a few potentials on here but they this deep dark secret they tend to hide. Either an ex who broke their hearts & not healed properly or have some serious mental health issues. Luckily with me i can read people really well when i meet them in real life..

What i seen a major red flag seeking a female is when they want to get married straight away, like idek you like that and you want your parents involved straight away. Either they are in rush for marriage or they trying to hide something & also nikkah laws have changed in the UK i think. It will be classed as legally married , so that means laws with assets will be split if the nikkah fails…That changes the whole nikkah is just a halal relationship/ dating.

Just want men to becareful and don’t fall for peer pressure.

Also , to the ladies take this as constructive criticism your all are not like this but, don’t make your marriage / relationship requirements based upon just dealbreakers because if you go down this path, men will have dealbreakers too. & it will be a endless back and forth.

Would you rather get married in your early 20s to a decent spouse, where you have an average marriage. Some good, some bad.

Or would you rather get married in your late 30s to the perfect spouse, where you have an amazing marriage. All good, no bad.

Breaking news: I don't care who you are.

Your race doesn't impress me. Your gender doesn't impress me. Your nationality doesn't impress me. Your politics don't impress me. Your labels don't impress me.

If you're a decent person, we'll get along. If you're arrogant, dishonest, entitled, or hypocritical, don't expect me to smile just because you belong to some group. Your identity isn't a personality. It isn't a shield from criticism either.

Respect isn't handed out like participation trophies. It's earned. Contempt is earned too.