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I discovered a very interesting fact in all the hate comments I received.
Most of the profiles are fake, they don’t have a proper name, and no pictures. They are too afraid to write their name as identity and very much scared to show their face. They use random numbers as their name. It's very easy to detect they are fakers come online to spread hate. Lemme give a pure examples, few months ago I made a post with my graduation pictures. Two random weirdos commented on my post, possibly one was girl and another one was guy, one tagged another, they began to talk to themselves in replies, the guy asked the girl whether she wants to marry me or not. The girl replied ew look he has beard. Later I replied to both of them in my one comment regarding their ridiculous behaviour. Yesterday, I checked my that post again to find their hate comments about my beard, but I noticed their comments were gone. But my replies are still there. So, it's obvious that they are certified fakers, they entertain themselves by spreading hate.
And more interestingly they spread hate comments not only in my posts, in other people's posts as well. Thanks to Jamaa systems, we can easily see people's comments to other posts. It doesn't matter how good or bad post those are, they make hate comments everywhere. If you read their comments carefully, then you can easily detect how much hate and anger they have in their mind and heart. It reveals their background story and upbringings.
Imagine they are the head of a family, then you will never see peace in their family. Without understanding the fact they will keep shouting and complaining. No one listen to no one. Everyone is like, I'm the one who might be heard.
In my previous post, I just asked a simple question, what's the need to block someone just after seeing them. You can say it easily, we are not compatible. Blocking someone straightforward means you have racist mentality, which is totally against our religious belief.
But, maximum comments tried to make me feel down writing my appearance that I am not attractive. First of all, you guys can never make me feel down, I have got extreme level of patience and strong mindset. Nothing can make me feel down and I never get angry. So, you guys are just wasting your time writing long comments. I don't even bother judgment. I just have a simple question for you guys, how do you get a whale amount of time to write comments? I work 16 hours a day, minimum 5 days a week, I don't have that much time like you guys. All I get my off day and break time. And I used my free time wisely. So, again you guys waste your time in my posts.
Finally, I would like to say out loudly, I don't need to be attractive to every girl I meet, I just need to be attractive to One girl only who is really meant for me. And the girl is meant for me will say YES to me based on who I am actually.
And last but not least, I would like to say thank you to few wise commentators (@CjBlackArabian07, @Specialist, @persianprincess,@fleur, @WaitAMoment) whose writing really carries meaning, intelligence and logic. I read your comments in other people's posts as well. Keep up good thoughts
No one is serious here, everyone is looking out for their own interests.😢🥹
The only good experience I had on this app was a man unmatching after reading my bio and saying I have too many 'audacious demands' 😂
Where's the best San Sebastian cheesecake/basque cheesecake in London?
I need it served with some milk chocolate 🫣
Some days are simple, but they still remind me to be thankful. Alhamdulillah for everything. Wishing you all a peaceful and positive day.
Guys, please check your mental health and don’t be afraid to get diagnosed. Sometimes you think you’re just “unlucky” or struggling with life more than everyone else, but there could actually be an underlying condition that can be treated with therapy, medication, or both.
For years I struggled to maintain jobs, I kept changing jobs or quitting whenever something happened because of impulsivity. I also struggled in relationships because I was very moody, sensitive, and difficult to deal with sometimes. I lost friendships because I would cancel plans last minute, disappear for weeks, or suddenly pressure people to go out because I needed that quick dopamine hit.
I thought this was just my personality.
Then I got diagnosed with ADHD and started medication (Elvanse). I’m honestly not joking when I say my life improved by around 50% in just one month.
No more constantly losing my keys or phone, no more thinking about 10 things at once, and I can finally focus better when reading or working. I feel calmer and more organised.
And honestly, treatment combined with simple habits like reflecting, journaling, going to the gym, improving your routine, or learning more about yourself can make you feel much more mentally balanced. You become in a much better position in your career or studies, more emotionally available for marriage or kids, and even a better friend. Instead of constantly living with thousands of thoughts in your head and never having a clear mind, things start feeling calmer and more manageable.
Please, if you feel like certain struggles have followed you for many years and you notice they affect you much more than the people around you, don’t ignore it. There’s no shame in getting help or checking if something is going on.
What’s worse is letting yourself suffer for years and unintentionally overwhelming the people you love too.
Wallah, life can genuinely get much better 🙏🏻
