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I have a question thats got me confused for some time, lets say someone asks for 25k pounds haq mehar which is quite excessive , also she is from Pakistan living in uk . I mean doesn't fall under normal amount of mehar , now most people would say its a red flag like straight away.
If its a wee bit hard for a man to pay that much n u know that girl fr some time and still they dont try to understand your reality dont budge from the demand now i do understand its women's right to ask , Do u guys think if its a red flag
We have known each other for long time , also if i pay where is my security how can i know mehar i paid is secure or she isnt gonna walk away with that amount
When i ask people they tell me she doesnt love you , its a transaction but i love that girl emotionally attached to her , do you guys think she is gold digger, scammer cuz everyone in my family is like stay away from her
O Allah, on this blessed Friday, grant us Your mercy, forgiveness, and guidance. Fill our hearts with peace, strengthen our faith, bless our families, and make our affairs easy. Protect us from harm and grant us success in this life and the Hereafter. Ameen🤲🏼🤲🏼
Allah says:
"We feed you only for the sake of Allah. We desire from you neither reward nor thanks."
The righteous do not worship for applause.
They seek what is with Allah.
Perhaps the most realistic du’a a person can make is when they ask Allah for what may seem impossible.
Sometimes Allah SWT
removes people
changes plans
and allows hardships
not to break you
but to strengthen you
The person who grows through those tests learns that true peace comes from trusting Allah SWT, not from depending on people.
Stay patient. Stay grateful. Keep moving forward.
Allah SWT sees every struggle, every prayer, and every step you take toward ALLAH CC.
“Indeed, with hardship comes ease.”
The Merciful One shows mercy to those who are merciful. Be merciful to those on the earth, and the One in the heaven will have mercy upon you - Sunan At-Tirmidhi
Prophet Muhammad PBUH came across an elderly woman who was struggling to carry a heavy load of belongings outside of Mecca. Seeing her difficulty, he immediately offered to carry the heavy bags for her.
As they walked together toward her destination, the woman was deeply touched by his kindness and manners. Not knowing who he was, she decided to give this helpful stranger some advice:
"My son I don't have any money to reward you but I want to give you some advice. There is a man in Mecca named Muhammad who claims to be a prophet. He is a magician, a liar, and a sorcerer who divides families. Be very careful of him and stay far away from him!"
The Prophet PBUH listened patiently and smiled, never interrupting her, getting angry, or correcting her aggressively. He simply carried her heavy luggage all the way to her destination.
When they arrived and he set her things down the woman was so incredibly grateful that she asked for his name so she could pray for him.
The Prophet PBUH replied, I am the man you were warning me about. I am Muhammad.
The woman was stunned that she realised that the very man she had been told to hate was the only person who had stopped to help her when she was struggling. Seeing his unmatched kindness and humility her heart had changed and she embraced Islam.
Isn’t it so beautiful that cheating on your spouse is not only a sin, but a crime!♥️
Genuine question for the men:
How do you feel about a 50/50 financial split in marriage?
If you're for it, what makes you support that approach? If you're against it, what do you think is a better arrangement and why?
Interested in hearing everyone's reasoning, not just their preference.
