Muslims in the UK

How was everyones Eid?

Trauma-based mind control is a term used to describe the idea that severe trauma, fear, abuse, coercion, or repeated psychological conditioning can make a person more susceptible to influence, control, or manipulation. It appears in some psychological discussions, survivor accounts, and conspiracy-related narratives, but many of the more extreme claims associated with the term are not supported by mainstream scientific evidence.

In established psychology, related concepts include:

Coercive control — patterns of intimidation, isolation, and manipulation used to dominate another person.
Trauma bonding — strong emotional attachments that can form between an abuser and a victim through cycles of abuse and reward.
Conditioning and learned behavior — ways people can be trained to respond to certain stimuli or situations.
Dissociation — a psychological response to overwhelming trauma in which a person may feel detached from their thoughts, feelings, or surroundings.

Researchers generally recognize that trauma can profoundly affect thinking, behavior, memory, relationships, and vulnerability to manipulation. However, claims that trauma can be used to create highly controlled “programmed” individuals with extraordinary capabilities are not supported by strong scientific evidence.

Do you take/buy flowers for first date? If yes, which ones lol

Can't win on these apps.

Shaadi.com
Expensive and glitchy at best.

Salaams
Usually have better looking men on there but they are after one thing

Muzz
Mixed bag of marbles. You never know what you are getting.

Pure Matrimony
Respectful and mostly kind but no attraction there.

Doomed to singledom 🙇🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️

Any recommendations?

Every time someone mistreats you, remember: heaven is not behind their house , F them

You don’t have to tolerate disrespect, manipulation, or emotional pain just because you’re afraid to let go. Protecting your peace is not a sin. Walking away from people who consistently hurt you is not selfish.

Choose self-respect over suffering, every single time. ✨

first-hand signs that you’re dealing with a toxic person in a relationship, they often show up in how you feel around them:

You constantly feel drained after talking to them.
You find yourself walking on eggshells to avoid upsetting them.
They make you feel guilty for having needs, opinions, or boundaries.
You frequently question yourself or wonder if you’re “overreacting.”
They criticize you more than they encourage you.
They rarely take responsibility for their mistakes.
Conversations often end up being about them and their needs.
You feel less confident, less happy, or less like yourself over time.
They manipulate situations to make themselves look like the victim.
Your peace of mind improves when you’re away from them.

Question for the ladies

Are you all who are using muzz are also on salaam, dil mil and other apps too?

I'm sorry but if you only have one pic on your profile or you have very little to nothing in your bio, then you are not as serious as you say you are.

"Serious people only" might be the most ironic thing you'll read in someone's bio because often times that's all it says 😂

https://youtu.be/EyOLlxPguGQ

Alḥamdulillāh, we have reached the days after Eid — but the ayyamul tashreek has not ended. We are still in these blessed days in which the takbīr is raised.
And today is Jumu’ah, the best day of the week and in these blessed days; where rewards are multiplied.

So, continue your ṣalāh, your dhikr, your tilawah your Takbeeraat, and continue to spend from what Allah has given you. Let your generosity reach the widows, orphans, and displaced families from Gaza:

https://fundraise.forgottenummah.org/akmol-hoque

Your brother in Islam
Akmol

Is there any man on here that doesn’t do his eyebrows? My preference is men 🧐