Muslims in the UK

"When I got married the first time, my husband made us live with in-laws, we literally had a net separating the other half of the room where his sibling would sleep"

Sister why did you not discuss with him before you got married? And if you did, you should've been able to decipher the probability of something like this happening. These girls fall in love, overlook the things important to them and then divorce and split families later. Don't be a fool

Ten Signs of a Narcissist’s Smear Campaign

A smear campaign is a tactic sometimes used by individuals with strong narcissistic traits to damage another person’s reputation, isolate them from support, or regain a sense of control. While not every difficult person engages in a smear campaign, the following signs are commonly reported.

1. They Portray Themselves as the Victim

They tell others a one-sided story in which they are completely innocent and you are entirely to blame.

2. Rumors Begin to Spread

You hear that false or exaggerated claims about you are circulating among friends, family members, colleagues, or acquaintances.

3. People Start Acting Differently Toward You

Individuals who were once friendly become distant, cold, or suspicious without explaining why.

4. Your Words Are Taken Out of Context

Private conversations, messages, or past events are selectively presented to create a misleading narrative.

5. They Recruit Allies

The person actively seeks supporters who will validate their version of events and repeat it to others.

6. They Attack Your Character Instead of Addressing Facts

Rather than discussing specific issues, they make broad claims about your personality, motives, or integrity.

7. They Present Half-Truths as Evidence

Facts may be mixed with distortions, omissions, or exaggerations to make the accusations seem believable.

8. They Try to Isolate You

The goal is often to weaken your support network by turning friends, relatives, or colleagues against you.

9. They Monitor Your Reactions

They pay close attention to whether the campaign is upsetting you, sometimes using your emotional response as further “proof” against you.

10. The Campaign Intensifies When You Set Boundaries

Attempts to damage your reputation often become more aggressive when you refuse to comply, disengage, or move on with your life.

A smear campaign is less about discovering the truth and more about controlling the narrative. The most effective response is usually to remain calm, document important interactions when necessary, maintain your credibility through consistent behavior, and rely on trustworthy people who know you well.

This London heat is unbearable. It's like we're locked inside a cooking pot. This 30°c feels worse than the 45°c of Makkah and Madinah.

Salaam, a lot of discussion about height.

Please state your BMIs people.

Many thanks

TheRealist

For those who have stood the other person up after they explicitly made it clear they are serious yet you went along with it.

What do you gain? How do you sleep at night?

Aoa all. Eid Mubarak...hope you are all well. My name is Sairah and I run The Chai Society in Birmingham. We are holding our Eid Dinner this Saturday and welcome new members to the group. See my previous posts for more information. If you're looking for sincere and genuine potentials then book your place. Buffet Restaurant - name of venue will be disclosed to those who book. DM for more info.

https://chaisocietyeidmay2026.eventbrite.co.uk/

https://youtu.be/GvDcp2r2Tl4?si=Lgtwpxk7G_8sdaHX

Check out Arzi's Dream: It's about two siblings and their long a treacherous journey to Mecca to perform Hajj.

This is the first ever Muslim Anime created.
Even if your not a anime fan. This truly is worth the watch. Or at least like & share to help it get the attention it needs and deserves.

Ten Signs of a True Muslim Woman (Islamic Perspective)

1. Strong faith (iman) and sincerity to Allah
   She worships Allah sincerely, not for showing off, but with devotion.
2. Regular prayer and remembrance of Allah
   She محافظ (maintains) the five daily prayers and keeps her heart connected to Allah.
3. Modesty (haya) in character and behaviour
   Modesty is not only clothing but also speech, actions, and dignity.
4. Good character and kindness
   She is gentle, patient, honest, and avoids harming others verbally or emotionally.
5. Respect for parents and family ties (silat al-rahim)
   She maintains strong, respectful relationships with her family.
6. Truthfulness and trustworthiness
   She avoids lying, betrayal, and dishonesty in relationships and responsibilities.
7. Protecting her dignity and boundaries
   She avoids situations that compromise her faith, self-respect, or safety.
8. Supportive and responsible in relationships
   Whether as a daughter, wife, or mother, she fulfils responsibilities with care and balance.
9. Patience (sabr) during trials
   She remains steady and trusts Allah during hardship (a key Qur’anic virtue).
10. Seeking knowledge and self-improvement
    She learns her religion and strives to better herself spiritually and morally.

Core Islamic idea:

A true Muslim woman is defined by faith, character, modesty, and righteousness, not by culture, appearance, or social status.

There is a guy i talked to for 1h based in CambridgeUK, a doctor, with the name of “Member”!
This idiot talked to me for 1 whole hour even asking for my number which i didn’t give and telling me “lori de ke sulayein” and then blocks me within 5mins of our call ending shayad lori ni sunayi isliye 😂
1h worth of entertainment is all he was 🤷🏻‍♀️ Beware of him girls. He is married actually and is just passing time here on muzz.

Assalamu alaikum everyone, hope you all had a good Eid? I’m looking for some recommendations for travel agents in Scotland who could arrange for umrah trips. I haven’t been before or used agents for visas etc. and unsure who to go with or if it’s acceptable to go through the process ourselves? Thank you in advance for your help!