Divorced Muslims

Thank you so much for your love and affection. Amar Gopal and liked You guys can't forget that name 🌹💋💋💋

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Are most men only nice and sweet before marriage or at the beginning of the marriage? 😩

I got married about less than a year ago, before the nikah while we were getting to know each other, he would find hundreds of excuses to travel to the city I lived in (it's a few hours drive), first month of marriage we still lived separately but he came to me every week, then he visited me less and less. I eventually moved to the city where he's from, I thought we would live together because he said it's not right for husband and wife not to live together, but after I moved he barely home, he stayed with his parents most of the times. The whole month after I moved to this new city, he stayed over at "our" house less than 5 nights. When I pushed for him to live with me like a proper family, he rather gave me talaq 😓 not long after after I was given the talaq, we had arguments in public place, about "Islamic rights", he ended up screaming at my face saying he never wanted to see me again and grab me and pushed me.

Now here I am, in a new city, barely know anyone, trying to find my feet. Nearly finished my iddah, no provisions or maintenance received from him even since beginning of marriage, and have not heard from him since. Also I never made any contact (I guess I was and still am traumatised by his aggression)

Allahu musta'an.. 🤲🏼

For the brothers - one major red flag in a potential?

I will go first.. having male friends

I learned to be both mother and father, but it was Allah who carried me when I felt too weak to continue.🤲

What do I need to heal right now to truly let this go....... 💔

"As much as I have longed for you, you must not have even seen yourself with such longing."