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Are you a single parent? Mums and Dads, don't feel alone. Talk to other single parents right here
🤍 Single parents, honest question…
What is something positive that becoming a parent added to your life that you never expected?
Not the obvious things like love and responsibility.
I mean the unexpected lessons.
Maybe it made you more patient.
Maybe it made you stronger.
Maybe it taught you to slow down and appreciate small moments.
Maybe it gave your life a purpose you didn’t know you were missing.
Parenthood changes us in ways we never see coming.
I’d love to hear what surprised you most about becoming a parent. 🌷
My ex is trying to stop me seeing my daughters after 10 years of nurturing and teaching them
Do dua for me please I have a social worker call after 60 minutes to get access to my daughters again.
Being a single parent is not just about raising children alone. It is about carrying responsibilities that were meant to be shared, making decisions alone, worrying alone, crying silently, and still waking up every day with strength because your children need you.
People often see the outside and judge quickly. They see a mother or father doing everything alone, but they don’t see the nights without sleep, the stress about bills, the school meetings, the sickness, the appointments, the emotional pain, the fear, the pressure, and the loneliness behind it all.
A lot of people remove you from their list simply because you are a single parent. They see your life as “too heavy,” too complicated, or too much responsibility. They don’t always see the heart behind it. They don’t see the love, the strength, the loyalty, and the courage it takes to keep going every single day.
Being a single parent does not make someone less worthy of love, respect, friendship, or happiness. It only means they have survived things others may never understand. It means they carry more, they worry more, they sacrifice more, and still they continue to give their children the best they can.
Some people walk away because they are not ready for a life that has real responsibilities. And that is okay. Not everyone has the heart, patience, or maturity to stand beside someone whose life is not simple. But the right people will not see your children or your past as a burden. They will see your strength. They will see your courage. They will see the beauty of a person who did not give up.
Single parents do not need pity. They need respect. They need kindness. They need people who understand that a heavy life does not mean a broken person. Sometimes the heaviest lives belong to the strongest hearts.
To every single parent who has been ignored, judged, rejected, or left out because your life is not “easy,” remember this: you are not less valuable. You are not too much. You are not a burden. You are someone who deserves peace, love, support, and people who choose you with understanding.
May Allah give strength to every single parent, ease their worries, protect their children, open the right doors for them, and replace their pain with peace, love, and happiness. Ameen.
As a single mother ,I try to pray on time but my 2 year old keeps sitting on my head or pushing my head forward , how do other parents handle this . Or he comes for cuddles and kisses in the middle of me praying and then I have to stop . Are my prayers still valid or do I have to start all over again .
Why do some sisters like a profile and when you engage by giving Salams they instantly block you and not even return salams as if you said something untoward?
Single parents, I have a question. 🤍
What’s something you wish people understood about being a single parent?
For me, one of the biggest misconceptions is that we’re looking for someone to “save” us or take over our responsibilities. Most single parents are already doing the hard work every day.
What many of us are actually looking for is respect, companionship, peace, and someone who understands that our children are part of our lives, not obstacles to them.
Being a single parent teaches resilience, patience, sacrifice, and unconditional love. It changes you in ways that are difficult to explain unless you’ve lived it yourself.
I’d love to hear your thoughts and experiences. 🌷
So wanted your advice...
I matched with someone however they live in a totally different city to me.
I am unable to relocate as I have kids and my kids see their dad every weekend and holidays. I dont feel right taking that away from them.
The person I matched with is unable to relocate but is willing to come to my city and see me for 3 to 4 days a week when we are married. What are your thoughts?
I have been offered this before but now I am thinking it maybe a viable option due to my circumstances.....or am I settling for a part time husband?
New here car wreck survivor single ladies don't be shy say hello
Lesson’s learnt..
What I want matters more than what other people want from me for themselves..
I choose to please myself first..
