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The Rise of Ego and Tribalism in LawAs the Islamic empire expanded, the pure, ego-less spiritual state practiced by the Prophet and his close companions began to clash with imperial politics.

Over time, rulers and certain jurists allowed their lower nature to influence how laws were interpreted:Tools for Control: Rulers often pressured scholars to twist legal interpretations to justify absolute power, wars, and social subjugation.

The "Alpha" Patriarchal Shift: The radical rights and protections granted to women by the Prophet were often diluted or rolled back in later centuries by jurists whose cultural, patriarchal egos could not accept true gender equity.Obsession with Punishment over Mercy:

While the Quran prioritises forgiveness, repentance, and covering people's faults, ego-driven mindsets naturally gravitate toward judgment, harshness, and public execution. This satisfies the predatory urge (Sabu’i) of the lower self.

If I'm what I've and if what I've is lost, who then am I??

The Mirror of Faith: Ego-Driven Zeal vs. Spiritual Surrender

The true essence of Islam is the voluntary surrender of one’s own will to God. Yet, a believer's approach to sharing this faith depends entirely on which state of the soul (Nafs) they operate from.Primitive Ego: Shaitan’s Energy Masked as ZealWhen Muslims operate from their lower, primitive nature (Nafs al-Ammarah), the ego corrupts religion into a weapon for dominance.

This manifests as "Shaitanic energy"—destructive, arrogant, and divisive.Aggression and Fighting: Ego-driven Muslims pick fights, push people, and aggressively chant "my religion is the only truth." This stems from a tribal, predatory urge to conquer and feel superior, not a desire to guide.Cursing the West: Those who spend their energy cursing the West or condemning others are often driven by unresolved anger, envy, and spiritual blindness.

They use religious rhetoric to mask their own internal toxicity and lack of self-control.The Recruitment Trap: For the primitive mind, Dawah is treated like a corporate recruitment drive or a badge of ego validation.Higher Consciousness: The Power of Silent GuidanceConversely, a Muslim who has purified their heart and achieved a higher state of consciousness understands that guidance (Hidayah) belongs solely to Allah.No Compulsion:

They respect the Quranic decree, "There is no compulsion in religion" (2:256). They never force or pressure another soul to convert, knowing true submission cannot be coerced.The Real Meaning of Dawah:

True Dawah is not a verbal assault; it is a state of being. It is living with such profound integrity, mercy, and peace that your character (Akhlaq) becomes a living mirror of divine light.A conscious believer never needs to yell that their religion is true.

They simply embody the truth, allowing their peaceful presence to draw hearts naturally toward surrender.