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Helloā¦ wanted to share a Muzz coffee experience from yesterday.
First sight: he did not look like his pictures. From pics i thought heād be taller with his defined pictures. Physical attraction was just not there, and to think he wanted to prolong meet. This exact risk was mitigated.
Second: vibe energy, beyond the flesh, not there. In my opinion, i think heās had many failed talking stages, admitted to past long-term relationships & tbh I felt all of this. Energy doesnāt lie. Even on three phone calls & lengthy messages - you canāt hide irl.
Third: I did give it a go & chance - using it as an experience to explore general thoughts, discussions (basically like a podcast) and discovered that though he was serious about marriage, the timelines wasnāt even aligned in the first place. Hundreds of messages and three phone calls, the impression was different to face-to-face.
Just one experience in online dating for the roadā¦ I feel stupid in retrospect but it is what it is. Practicing sabr over frustration.