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Dating apps didn’t modernize relationships. They industrialized them.
They took one of the most meaningful decisions a human being can make—choosing a spouse—and reduced it to a left swipe, a right swipe, and a dopamine hit.
You aren’t meeting a person anymore.
You’re shopping.
A face.
A bio.
Three pictures.
Five seconds.
Next.
We’ve accepted a system that rewards impulsiveness over character, appearance over values, and endless options over commitment.
And then there’s this app that markets itself as “Islamic.”
Islam didn’t teach us to scroll through hundreds of strangers.
Islam didn’t teach men and women to spend weeks chatting privately, building emotional attachment before families are even involved.
Islam didn’t replace modesty with direct messages.
Putting an Islamic logo on a dating app doesn’t suddenly make the process Islamic.
Calling something “halal” doesn’t make it halal if it ignores the principles that were meant to protect our hearts, intentions, and dignity.
Marriage was never supposed to become another social media experience.
We’ve become so used to this system that we’ve stopped asking a simple question:
If this process is so close to Islamic values, why would previous generations of Muslims not even recognize it?
Technology should solve problems—not redefine morality.
Not everything that is convenient is good.
Not everything that is popular is right.
Some things deserve more dignity than a like button.
Marriage is one of them.
Ashura reminds me that Allah's timing is always perfect. What seems delayed to us may simply be Allah preparing something better. May He accept our duas and grant us what is best for our dunya and akhirah. Ameen.
24-35 generation is cooked. Women think they're a prize and don't compromise. I can't speak on behalf of women. My experience with women and 2026 dating is they have zero emotional resilience, don't work through problems, rather than strive for marriage, they strive for finding a reason to not commit to the person. Avoidants everywhere, actions show they're scared to get married, but worst thing of of all? They talk and pretend like they are looking for marriage before you realise they're a waste of time
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