All things marriage

Assalamu Alaikum While working hard on career and personal growth it’s now time to take the next step in life and settle down Looking for a partner who understands both life goals and family values. Have a blessed day ahead everyone

𝘼𝙨 𝙖 𝙣𝙚𝙫𝙚𝙧-𝙢𝙖𝙧𝙧𝙞𝙚𝙙 𝙞𝙣𝙙𝙞𝙫𝙞𝙙𝙪𝙖𝙡, 𝙄 𝙥𝙚𝙧𝙨𝙤𝙣𝙖𝙡𝙡𝙮 𝙥𝙧𝙚𝙛𝙚𝙧 𝙖 𝙥𝙖𝙧𝙩𝙣𝙚𝙧 𝙬𝙝𝙤 𝙝𝙖𝙨 𝙖𝙡𝙨𝙤 𝙣𝙚𝙫𝙚𝙧 𝙗𝙚𝙚𝙣 𝙢𝙖𝙧𝙧𝙞𝙚𝙙. 𝙏𝙝𝙞𝙨 𝙥𝙧𝙚𝙛𝙚𝙧𝙚𝙣𝙘𝙚 𝙞𝙨 𝙣𝙤𝙩 𝙖 𝙟𝙪𝙙𝙜𝙢𝙚𝙣𝙩 𝙤𝙛 𝙙𝙞𝙫𝙤𝙧𝙘𝙚𝙙 𝙞𝙣𝙙𝙞𝙫𝙞𝙙𝙪𝙖𝙡𝙨, 𝙖𝙨 𝙚𝙫𝙚𝙧𝙮 𝙥𝙚𝙧𝙨𝙤𝙣'𝙨 𝙡𝙞𝙛𝙚 𝙟𝙤𝙪𝙧𝙣𝙚𝙮 𝙞𝙨 𝙙𝙞𝙛𝙛𝙚𝙧𝙚𝙣𝙩 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙙𝙚𝙨𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙤𝙛 𝙧𝙚𝙨𝙥𝙚𝙘𝙩. 𝙍𝙖𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙧, 𝙄 𝙛𝙚𝙚𝙡 𝙩𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙖 𝙨𝙞𝙢𝙞𝙡𝙖𝙧 𝙢𝙖𝙧𝙞𝙩𝙖𝙡 𝙗𝙖𝙘𝙠𝙜𝙧𝙤𝙪𝙣𝙙 𝙢𝙖𝙮 𝙝𝙚𝙡𝙥 𝙪𝙨 𝙧𝙚𝙡𝙖𝙩𝙚 𝙢𝙤𝙧𝙚 𝙚𝙖𝙨𝙞𝙡𝙮 𝙩𝙤 𝙚𝙖𝙘𝙝 𝙤𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙧'𝙨 𝙚𝙭𝙥𝙚𝙧𝙞𝙚𝙣𝙘𝙚𝙨, 𝙚𝙭𝙥𝙚𝙘𝙩𝙖𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣𝙨, 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙢𝙞𝙡𝙚𝙨𝙩𝙤𝙣𝙚𝙨 𝙖𝙨 𝙬𝙚 𝙗𝙚𝙜𝙞𝙣 𝙖 𝙣𝙚𝙬 𝙘𝙝𝙖𝙥𝙩𝙚𝙧 𝙩𝙤𝙜𝙚𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙧. 𝙈𝙖𝙧𝙧𝙞𝙖𝙜𝙚 𝙞𝙨 𝙖 𝙙𝙚𝙚𝙥𝙡𝙮 𝙥𝙚𝙧𝙨𝙤𝙣𝙖𝙡 𝙙𝙚𝙘𝙞𝙨𝙞𝙤𝙣, 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙘𝙤𝙢𝙥𝙖𝙩𝙞𝙗𝙞𝙡𝙞𝙩𝙮 𝙤𝙛𝙩𝙚𝙣 𝙞𝙣𝙘𝙡𝙪𝙙𝙚𝙨 𝙛𝙖𝙘𝙩𝙤𝙧𝙨 𝙩𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝙞𝙢𝙥𝙤𝙧𝙩𝙖𝙣𝙩 𝙩𝙤 𝙗𝙤𝙩𝙝 𝙞𝙣𝙙𝙞𝙫𝙞𝙙𝙪𝙖𝙡𝙨. 𝙏𝙝𝙚𝙧𝙚𝙛𝙤𝙧𝙚, 𝙄 𝙖𝙢 𝙨𝙚𝙚𝙠𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙨𝙤𝙢𝙚𝙤𝙣𝙚 𝙬𝙝𝙤𝙨𝙚 𝙡𝙞𝙛𝙚 𝙘𝙞𝙧𝙘𝙪𝙢𝙨𝙩𝙖𝙣𝙘𝙚𝙨 𝙘𝙡𝙤𝙨𝙚𝙡𝙮 𝙖𝙡𝙞𝙜𝙣 𝙬𝙞𝙩𝙝 𝙢𝙮 𝙤𝙬𝙣 🔥

Keep your intentions pure, stay true to who you are, and leave the rest in Allah’s hands. Wishing everyone here the best of luck in finding their righteous soulmate....!

Hi everyone

A small thought for those who say, "I'm only here for marriage, not a relationship."
I completely respect that. But let's be realistic—marriage doesn't happen between two strangers.
The first thing that catches anyone's attention is usually appearance. After that comes what actually matters: your personality, values, character, and how you treat people.
Before involving families, I think it's reasonable for two people to spend some time getting to know each other respectfully. Talk, ask important questions, and, if you're both comfortable, meet in public a few times. Not to waste time, but to see if you're genuinely compatible.
If, after a month or two, you both feel you're a good match, then involve the families and move forward with the intention of marriage.
Wanting to know someone before making one of the biggest decisions of your life doesn't mean you're not serious about marriage. It means you're serious enough not to rush it.
Marriage is a lifelong commitment, and compatibility deserves time—not assumptions

Am I the only one whose biggest non-negotiable is that someone is practicing their deen and fulfilling the obligatory acts (especially salah)???

I already mention it in my bio, but I still get approached by people who don’t pray. No judgment at all everyone has their own struggles and journey with Allah. It’s just one of my personal dealbreakers, and I’d rather not waste anyone’s time

First she was sick, then she went on holiday, now she has a migraine because of the heat…. Coincidence or is she just being long? 🤔

“It is reported that in Egypt, there was a man who would maintain the mosques, making the call to prayer, etc. He was, by all outward means, an obedient person and devout worshipper. One day, as he usually would, he ascended the minaret to make the call to prayer. At the base of the minaret, there was a Christian woman standing. He saw her, and was seduced by her looks. So, he descended the minaret, went to her, and entered her home. She said to him:

“Who are you, and what do you want?”

He replied: “I want you.”

She said: “Why?”

He said: “You have enslaved my eyes, and you have captured my heart.”

She said: “I will never answer your desire in a doubtful or suspicious manner.”

He said: “Ok, so, I will marry you, then.”

She said: “You are a Muslim, and I am a Christian. My father will never allow me to marry you.”

He said: “So, I will become a Christian.”

She said: “If you wish to do so, go ahead.“

So, the man became a Christian in order to marry this woman, and lived with the woman’s family in her house.
Later on that day, however, he was on the roof of the house. He fell from the roof and died without even having enjoyed his new bride. So, he lost the woman, and he lost his religion.”

(Ad-Da’ wad-Dawa, page.127 of Ibn Al-Qayyim Al-Jawziyyah (Rahimahullaah

A friendly reminder: It is crucial to never compromise your faith (deen) for anyone, even fellow Muslims. It's disheartening to hear stories where some brothers discourage their wives from wearing hijab and niqab, potentially leading to a loss of faith. Similarly, be cautious of friends who encourage sinful behavior or invite you to mixed gatherings. It's best to distance yourself from such influences. Remember, it's important to stay away from anyone, including family members, who promote disobedience to Allah. Always keep in mind that you are accountable for the consequences of your actions.

"What is one book that you think every young Muslim should read at least once

There has been a lot of talk about feminist movement here in support of this ideology.. but all I see is confused sisters here defending it.
I'd like to offer one female's perspective to benefit from
https://youtu.be/n6wopWKJ1ic?si=MM-AE7rxBy8r8n67