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A question for discussion 👀

When getting to know someone on a marriage app, what’s more important: developing feelings first, or being clear about expectations and values from the beginning?

And why do you think many people look for the “perfect” person instead of the “right” person? 🤔

Hi!

Hey ✨🦋

Hello im new here im interesting by serious girl 😊

Hi guys ❤️

As-salamu alaykum. Allah comes first in my life, and everything else either serves that or eventually leaves it.

Here’s what I’m actually looking for.

I seek a wife who genuinely loves Allah. Modest, intelligent, honest, thoughtful a woman capable of growth and of building trust. Someone who values what Allah loves, protects what is sacred, thinks beyond appearances, and understands that marriage isn’t sustained by feelings alone. It’s sustained by faith, loyalty, mercy, communication, patience, and effort returned in kind.

Not perfection. Sincerity.
Not performance. Character.
Not blind submission. Two people submitting to Allah and helping one another become better before Him.

I want a marriage where we pray together, build together, and laugh together. where we can challenge each other without disrespect, protect each other’s dignity, and raise children with understanding rather than empty inheritance. A home where Allah is remembered in ease and in difficulty.

If that’s the kind of marriage you’ve been holding out for, I’d like to know you.

The guys I find attractive always turn out to be either pervs or have a trash personalities 💆🏻‍♀️

The way people describe themselves here , I feel half this app was in battle of Badr lol..

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