All things marriage

Haiii there

How do I get myself to feel excited about marriage? I've talked to lots of lovely women on here and outside, lots of them I have lots in common with them, and we actually clicked. But the actual idea of marriage doesn't feel all that exciting. I feel like i already have peace in my life, and every time I think about marriage my brain spirals into a dark place with thoughts like "what if I'm not enough", "what if I can't provide her with the life she wants", I just keep thinking and thinking

I'm I broken? How do I fix myself? I'd really appreciate your help

After all the money saga..some guys keep adding me up..if u think you want to continue from where he stopped..wallahi it a lie
Am not a fool nd some pple take kind hearted person to something else..am the type dat I can’t hear u lamenting abt something nd i have the capacity to do within dat period..dis is not abt love but my own way..but unfortunately we re in a wicked world..pple have borrowed friends,family nd non refundable till now..including me aswell but just dat dis amount is much for me to let go of it ..we dated nd staying in same ilorin together but have learnt my deep lesson nd I knew it not gender based
It applicable to my gender aswell
But all in all
Let fear God in our dealings
Because the sister to d guy told me dat he doesn’t know how he his spending the money nd wants to commit suicide
I was like let him commit suicide after he refund my own money because he his useless to dis world because curse is on him
I pray my money will be refundable

Where is good mens

Try to watch, reflect, Insha'Allah https://www.instagram.com/reel/DZSrzaYoGC5/?igsh=eXE2NWJtdDJwaDls

Need a life partner

Just curious. When it comes to marriage, do you prefer getting to know someone from your own country, or are you open to marrying someone from another country? Why?
A short answer is enough. I'd love to hear your thoughts.

Effort 😊

I Iave you

Liking you and choosing you are not the same.
Many people will admire you, enjoy your company, or keep you around for comfort. But when its time to commit, sacrifice, or stand beside you through uncertainty, they hesitate.
A person who likes you invests emotions. A person who chooses you invests actions.
Never confuse attention with intention. Never mistake chemistry for commitment.
Invest your heart where you are consistently chosen not occasionally liked.

29th June, 2026
Nita