All things marriage

To all sisters WARNING ⚠️ be careful with the guy goes by Ihsan, @PEACENLOVE

I’ve been talking to someone for a little over a week now. I’m interested in getting to know him more but I’m not used to a guy being so nonchalant and inexpressive. I feel like I carry our conversations most of the time. He’s very short in his responses and takes hours to reply. He’s a doctor and when he works nights I’m very understanding. I’m not asking for him to message me all the time, but when he does message, I wish he would put in a little more effort. When I told him how I felt, he apologized and said that sometimes the time difference can be hard. But it’s only a 3 hour time difference between us. He’s in Canada, I live in the US. He then suggested FaceTiming. He said it might be easier than texting. But during our call, I felt like he was just as dry. And he also didn’t message me afterwards. I was the one that reached out and said I enjoyed our call and I still haven’t received a response. He usually takes a long time to respond though. I’m just not sure how to proceed.

No offence to all British men but most of them

It appears to me like they think of us “freshies” as some lesser of a human…

They would always say when the match with me that they are looking for someone with good upbringing but what they actually mean by that is they are looking for some who would put up with their *****, cater for their parents and families, contributes in finances and be at their beck and calls at the same time.

The reason why I would never want to Mary a Brit is their some form of superiority complex over us

And what they say about Brit ladies is that they are badtameez, for the roads and haramis but it actually means is they stand up for themselves and speak up, they don’t put up with their ***** and the are educated professionals….

Let that sink in somewhere

Ya Rabb...
My Sustainer🤍
My Nurturer😇
The One who takes care of me🤗
The One who never abandons me😇
May I never live to see the day when Your praise ceases from my lips.
I will praise You in the morning
I will praise You in the afternoon
I will praise You in the evening
I will praise You in the night
I will praise You at midnight
As long as You grant me life Ya Rab
I will continue to praise You
There were people who once praised You
But today they no longer do.
Ya Rabb...
May That Never Be My Fate
Keep my heart steadfast, my tongue alive with Your remembrance, and my soul firmly attached to You until my last breath
Your praise shall never cease from my mouth🤍Amin 🤲🏻

Hello

I always say from the very beginning of a conversation that I'm not in a rush to get married. I don't have a specific goal of getting married at a certain age or in a particular year.

However, my intention is clear. So, once I've matched with someone, after we've had a light conversation for a while and I see that the conversation is going well, I usually take the initiative to ask about his intentions, timeline, goals, and expectations for the process.

This is important to me because I don't want to waste my time or energy. Yes, many people join here with the intention of getting married, but a lot of them say they're not in a rush, and it often seems like they don't have a clear goal. Instead, they just want to see where things go.

That approach may work for some people, but it doesn't work for me. I believe that having clear goals and a timeline is important so that we can both be intentional about our conversations. I don't believe you can truly get to know someone just by asking what they like or dislike, or what they do on weekends or weekdays. I think meaningful conversations require going beyond those questions—discussing deeper topics, thinking critically, and being more intentional and mindful.

I'm aware that everyone has a different perspective, and I respect that. I just want to share mine.

“Sometimes it feels tough to find someone who truly reflects you or makes you feel whole. A genuine person who really wants something real isn’t easy to come by but I still believe the right person is out there.🤔

I’m into younger guys.. like 1-6/7 years younger
I’m 30 hehe