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I have always said not all men, and I’ll keep saying it.
But it is definitely the men who see women as something to use rather than someone to value.
The men who think marriage is just a route to ***.
The men who think being a single mum means your standards should be lower, that you should just be grateful to be considered, or that you’re automatically expected to accept arrangements you don’t want.
The men who hear no and treat it as the start of a negotiation instead of the end of the conversation.
The men who use pressure instead of respect, intimidation instead of communication, and anger instead of accountability.
Then, the moment they’re asked to explain their own behaviour, the script changes. Suddenly they’re the victim. Suddenly it’s, ‘You hate me because I have male genitalia’ as if being questioned about your actions is somehow the same as being hated for being a man.
No.
Women aren’t asking for perfection. We’re asking for honesty, respect and accountability.
If every difficult conversation ends with self-pity, deflection, or storming off instead of reflection, don’t call that strength. Call it what it is: an unwillingness to take responsibility.
Women are not asking for too much by expecting to be treated with dignity. That should be the bare minimum
A genuine question, and I'd appreciate honest answers.
Why is it that whenever the topic of virginity comes up, many people immediately say, "Virginity doesn't matter."
If it truly doesn't matter, then why does the discussion make some people uncomfortable?
And let's be clear—this isn't just about women. The same standard applies to men. Virginity, loyalty, and self-respect should be expected from both genders, not just one.
If someone spends years sleeping around before marriage, is it really fair to expect a completely loyal and committed partner in return?
Loyalty isn't a one-way street. If you expect loyalty, commitment, and respect from your future spouse, shouldn't you be willing to offer the same?
Double standards shouldn't exist. The same values should apply to both men and women.
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Why the girls ask that past doesn't matter??
It's actually matters...
Some loser incel swipes right on me with his bio stating not interested in feminist/liberal woman. My bio says I don’t dress Islamic. Marches with him just to tell him. One thing I hate worse than a incel is hypocritical incel! At least stay consistent!