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Girls on here are just waste of time. Don't fall victim guys
New here and trying to explore genuine connections, but not getting any responses yet. I believe good things take time, so I’m still hopeful to meet someone sincere and compatible. Let’s see where this journey goes.☺️
Oh man, I know you're still stalking my posts. I've sent you messages many times telling you to block me from all aspects.
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Assalamualaikum viewers viewers I saw the man sending me a message even though we had really broken up there was no more matchmaking.
the man didn't want to come to my biological mother's house in December.
he was able to book a hotel in my mother's country telling me to come to the hotel.
I said I didn't want to because there was no marriage bond I didn't want to be involved in adultery I didn't want to get the sin of adultery. I suggested that we both go to my biological mother's house to meet my biological mother to discuss marriage.
the man didn't want to. so here it's clear guys the man doesn't want to get married but wants to meet at the hotel.
and the man said about the Hotel on Saturday. on Friday the man went to Friday prayers and gave me a video of the mosque.
so here the message is clear no matter how strong a man's faith is, going to the mosque to pray is also tempted by unlawful lust. so it's clear what our purpose is in marriage so that we can avoid adultery.
in this situation the man should immediately find a prospective wife and marry halal. I'm not here to deliberately reveal shame but I'm telling my experience and hopefully it will be useful for you readers including me.
so the point is we humans if we still have a healthy life have biological lust husband and wife relationship we must get married. we should not normalize adultery.
so what's the point of us praying we give alms we give zakat we go to umrah but our daily activities still normalize adultery. truly adultery is forbidden by religion.
and the man sent me a message saying he wants to love me but our distance is far and he said he wants to watch my video every day I don't know which video if there is still a video please post it in the comments column so that all viewers can see the video.
what video don't let viewers misunderstand. please post the video in my comments column. and I never send videos that are negative. so you should post the video in my comments column or you better block me.
I try to accept our relationship I feel confident I act sweet and reply to messages gently. well I thought we would get married because you said you wanted to get married.
You know I said I don't like to drag on without any certainty of chatting until we've reached the difficult stage of implementing the taaruf pattern, implementing the non-mahram boundary pattern, we've had difficulties in our WhatsApp chats, to the point that I'm sometimes confused about how to reply to messages, I have to be careful in choosing words.
Allah's destiny, Allah separates us with arguments. You're the one who made the mistake, you're the one who made the mistake, how dare you ask me to come to the hotel you're going to book, that's your big mistake. You're Muslim, you're a single dad, you have one or more children. You should be more mature and know how to respect women, you should come to my mother's house, we'll talk about marriage.
because you're embarrassed by my refusal because I don't want to come to the hotel you're going to book, suddenly you say the reason we're far away, you'll spend a lot of money on plane transportation, food costs, and your travel.
while to book a hotel you feel it's not expensive at the beginning, you don't tell me the expensive cost of the hotel, plane transportation, then you at the hotel you don't say it's expensive.
Breaking tradition one bank transfer at a time. 💸💍 😂😂😂
Ladies, what mehr would you pay? This is for gigs only please don’t come mad in the comments!