All things marriage

In the Uk. If it is an Afghan girl. If it is a Pakistani girl. If it is. Whoever is a Muslim, I will marry him. I am serious that he is committed to Islam. Insha Allah I will fulfill my promise. I do not want to waste my time with anyone. I still say that if you have the intention of a halal marriage, please send a message in private.

Facebook mentality has dominated this app too

Instead of using the app to communicate and seek a partner

They be sharing random stuff. For attention And taking advantage of other people who’re really seeking for a partner. To get likes and message requests. ( that’s called. Seeking social validation)

But the problem is. Ur not an influencer or a content creator.

But it’s also a guys fault . They’re liking any post that’s published by a female

Seriously ! Ur starving that much for an interaction with a female !

Also. I noticed that some young girls are looking for friendships

Wtf.

Aren’t we all Muslims ! And we know that these kind of things are haram

And. We all came here because we’re wanted to settle. And we came here to find a partner who’s interesting in the same goal.

I know it’s difficult to do it outside. Y’all are busy working. Or they might not have that much of freedom.

That’s why this app was created. To make it easy. To find a partner

This trash Facebook mindset have destroyed
All the concepts of communication between people

I’m not a fan. I can’t allow myself to be a number on somebody’s account.

And i won’t fight and compete with other males for a girl too. (This is an animal behavior. They do during mating seasons )

But. We have minds and pride.

I guess it’s time for u people to start reporting these cases.

If u try to communicate with someone and u realize that he’s using this app for other reasons that. Finding a partner in halal. Just report him/her

If our Mothers made mistakes in Marriage, why do we expect our future Wives to be Perfect?
Like as guys we can't expect our Spouses that we choose to be like our Mothers, if they have good character, are respectful and are trying Humans then be Thankful...
We grow with the people we choose & then become one...
Let's be patient, supportive & warm towards our partners Insha'Allah...

I'm leaving this place; it's truly not for me. There's no one here who's normal, well-adjusted, or speaks respectfully. This app has caused me far too much pain and stress, and I don't have the energy to waste here. It's been a terrible experience.
My nerves are shot, and it's become a real stressor. There's no decent, kind-hearted person here. The people here are just awful. I'm leaving you to hell.

Question for men and women:

Would you rather marry a girl with goals, ambition, and a vision for her life, or someone who depends completely on your direction?

What's your opinion?

Every now and then, someone asks me what the hardest part of living with a disability is.

They expect me to say the surgeries.
The pain.
The wheelchair.
The inaccessible places.
The daily challenges.

Those things are difficult, yes.

But they're not the hardest part.

The hardest part is living in a world where too many people see your disability before they see you.

Where a conversation that starts with "I'd like to get to know you" quickly turns into an interrogation.

"How do you shower?"

"How do you cook?"

"Can you dress yourself?"

"Can you have ***?"

"Can I see how your body works?"

Imagine being expected to answer questions that most people would never dare ask a stranger. Imagine feeling like you're being interviewed for the role of "acceptable human being" instead of simply getting to know someone.

Curiosity is natural. We all have questions about things we haven't experienced.

But there's a difference between respectful curiosity and treating another person like an exhibit in a museum.

A wheelchair is a mobility aid, not an invitation to invade someone's privacy.

And what hurts even more is that sometimes, after answering questions with patience and kindness, you're still expected to prove yourself.

Prove you're independent enough.

Prove you're masculine enough.

Prove you're capable enough.

Prove you're "worth the risk."

As if your entire existence is an application waiting to be approved.

Some people don't realize how exhausting that is.

We don't wake up every morning trying to convince the world that we're human. We just want to live, laugh, love, work, build careers, annoy our siblings, argue over where to eat, dream about the future, and be loved for who we are just like everyone else.

A disability changes some things.

It does not erase intelligence.

It does not erase ambition.

It does not erase kindness.

It does not erase the ability to love or be loved.

And it certainly does not erase dignity.

Education isn't just about degrees. It's about knowing where curiosity should stop and respect should begin.

If you genuinely want to know someone with a disability, ask about their passions before their limitations.

Ask what makes them laugh.

Ask what they dream about.

Ask what they're proud of.

See the person first.

Because the most disabling thing in this world isn't always a medical condition.

Sometimes, it's ignorance wrapped in curiosity.

And trust me...

No wheelchair has ever weighed as much as having to constantly prove your humanity.

Can you suggest a country for me to visit?

We should get jerseys

My experience on Muzz

I recently chatted with someone who said she was divorced. She told me that her husband had married another woman and had given her a divorce. However, I felt something was unclear, so I requested a divorce certificate with the NIC and address hidden for privacy.

She replied that it was only a verbal divorce and shared a court order from two months earlier in which the court had ordered her husband to provide her with separate accommodation.

It appeared that she was not officially divorced yet and may have been keeping another option open before filing for divorce. Transparency is very important when looking for a serious match.

Hello all friends