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Salam! Anyone want to chat? I’m looking a partner to go umrah as husband and wife.

if your plan isn't to marry me, kindly get out of my husband's way

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someone came to me and said that--- im better than u --- so I don't know what he is talking about .!!!!! But later I know that he keeps me always front of him and follow me --- what's that mean ?

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🚩 <CUSTOM_BOLD>Top 5 Red Flags in Online Match Conversations (in my opinion)</CUSTOM_BOLD>

Not every “serious” rishta is actually serious. Sometimes the fastest way someone tries to gain your trust is exactly where you should slow down and observe more carefully. Here are a few red flags I personally think are worth paying attention to:

1. Asking for a wali/guardian’s number too early
One major red flag is when someone asks for your wali (guardian/father’s) number after just a few messages. This can sometimes be a tactic to appear serious and quickly gain trust. It gives the impression of sincerity, but in reality, it may be used to lower your guard early on. Asking after a reasonable time (like a couple of weeks of consistent conversation) is very different from asking within a day or two, which often feels rushed and intentional rather than genuine.

2. Pretending to be overly religious
Another red flag is when someone suddenly presents themselves as extremely religious in a way that feels exaggerated or performative. Genuine faith is consistent and reflected in behavior over time, not something used only to impress or influence someone quickly.

3. Playing the victim / emotional manipulation
Statements like “something like this always happens to me” or constantly portraying themselves as unlucky or victimized can be a form of emotional manipulation. This is often used to gain sympathy and make the other person feel responsible for comforting or trusting them.

4. Love bombing
Excessive early affection such as “I’ll do anything for you,” “I’ll agree to whatever you say,” or intense declarations of love very quickly can be a warning sign. This kind of overwhelming attention can feel flattering, but it is often used to create fast emotional attachment before proper understanding is built.

5. Fast-tracking trust and commitment
Trying to accelerate emotional or family-level involvement too quickly,without allowing time for proper understanding,can also be a red flag. Genuine intentions usually allow space for gradual trust-building rather than pushing for immediate closeness or decisions.

💬 What are your top 5 red flags?

I have used this app; here, the girls just pass time and are not sincere. I also made a payment here and tried to express my truth completely. Here, you are just wasting money and also wasting your time. This has been my experience with this application, and very few notifications come.

Hi , I'm new here ,
Is it a good step or it's just a space for most serious personsb?

🎯🎯🎯 Very important Question ⁉️

My friend flew from Amsterdam to India to find a wife. Not in Delhi. In his village. Here’s why:

✅12 years building wealth → He wants to protect it, not fund parties
✅Fear: Women who’re prodigal + fancy plans + later cheat with “European hunks”
✅What he wants: Modesty. Sincerity. Integrity.
✅His reality: Can’t find that in Amsterdam OR big Indian cities
✅2026 problem: Even he’s afraid to say this out loud

Question for you:
What happened to values in 2026?
Comment below 👇