All things marriage

Hi, I'm looking for a genuine and serious relationship. If you're interested and have the same intentions, feel free to send me a message.

One of the reasons the idea of marriage doesn’t excite me the way it once did is because I’ve experienced how much of it can become an endless cycle of proving yourself.

Not through actions that actually build a life together, but through constant emotional tests.
You’re not going to leave me, right
Do you still love me?
Why didn’t you text me?
You’re the man. Do your job.
It’s the man’s job to chase.

Reassurance is normal. Everyone needs it sometimes. But there comes a point where reassurance stops being about love and starts becoming a bottomless pit that nothing can fill.

I’ve noticed this dynamic enough that it’s hard to ignore. Some of it comes from anxious attachment, where the fear of abandonment causes someone to constantly seek proof that you aren’t leaving. Unfortunately, reassurance only works temporarily. The anxiety returns, and the cycle repeats.

Some of it comes from cultural expectations. I hate making broad generalizations, but I’ve seen this pattern more often in South Asian and Middle Eastern communities, where men are expected to lead, pursue, pay, and continuously reassure. The phrase you’re the man, do your job becomes a way to justify one sided emotional labor instead of building mutual trust. Of course, not everyone believes this, but it’s a pattern I’ve encountered way too many times.

Then there’s the constant testing. People test your love by pulling away to see if you’ll chase. They test your commitment by creating unnecessary conflict. They test your patience by questioning your intentions over and over. They test your loyalty by assuming the worst instead of trusting your actions. The irony is that these tests often create the very outcome they’re trying to prevent.

A partner with low emotional intelligence and low self-esteem can unintentionally turn love into a constant search for validation and In the end It’s destroyed because eventually you become emotionally exhausted from having to prove the same thing every single day.

What is your challenge?

And that's all.!

Here for one halal love story.
• Building a life, not just a profile.
• Praying for the right person, not the perfect one.
• Coffee, conversations & a lifetime of duas.
• If you're kind, loyal, and love Allah—we'll get along.
• One sincere intention: Nikah.
• Hoping to find my peace, Insha'Allah.

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Wanting marriage, in a matrimony app.. is Toxic now. Go figure

Me and my collection ❤️

It's kinda strange when you get to know it's not that what you thought it would be!🙌

Heyy

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