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I think if the Mehr is more than the man's 3 months salary then it should be obligatory for the bride to give dowry

Life is short..finding the one I more hard this days

Does the wife need to do housework?

A woman is not obligated to do housework. You've probably heard this before, but before you agree or disagree, I wanna ask you a question. If that's true, why did Fatima رضي الله عنها do all of it?

Because not obligatory does not mean don't do it. It means something more beautiful. If housework had been made obligatory for women, every time she fell short, she would fall into sin. So Allah didn't make it a duty, He made it a door.

When a woman cares for her child, tidies her home, gives herself for her family, she doesn't do this because she has to, she does it for Allah, and she seeks her reward from her Lord. And the Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم approved of this.

Ali رضي الله عنه carried the burdens outside of the home. Fatima رضي الله عنها maintained everything within it. They just had different responsibilities, that's all. And both mattered.

And here is what this doesn't mean: It doesn't give the woman the mindset that pressures her husband, and it doesn't give the right for a man to treat his wife as a servant.

Because a family isn't a place where everyone demands their rights. It's a place where sacrifices compete with each other.

Everyone wants an Ali, but how many want the responsibility Ali carried?

Everyone wants a Fatima, but how many want the sacrifice Fatima showed?

If you want Ali, become a little like Fatima.
If you want Fatima, become a little more like Ali.

Because happy homes are never built by demanding rights, they are built on mutual sacrifice.

I thought this application was specifically for people looking for partners, aka singles, but after joining, it turned out to be not as I imagined.

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Hoping to meet a man who treats me right😌

I still believe in genuine connection and perhaps that is why I still have hope despite everything I have seen People often say that good people are hard to find but I think sincere people are still everywhere They are simply hidden beneath the noise of a world that has become very good at communicating and not always very good at connecting We live in a time where someone can accept your request and never speak Someone can start a conversation and disappear Someone can tell you they are serious and then vanish the moment sincerity enters the room Sometimes it is almost funny We ask for meaningful connections then respond with one word We ask Allah for a spouse then treat conversations like a hobby We say we want honesty then become uncomfortable when honesty arrives We say we want communication then disappear for days and return as if nothing happened 😅 But perhaps the deepest wound is not being ignored It is beginning to wonder if there is something wrong with you because someone else failed to see your value And that is where many hearts lose their way So let me remind you of something You are more beautiful than the opinions of people who never took the time to know you They do not know your heart They do not know your struggles They do not know your late night prayers They do not know your intentions They do not know your character They do not know the battles you fought alone They do not know how many times you chose kindness when bitterness would have been easier They only see what their eyes allow them to see and sometimes people look without truly seeing at all So calm yourself brother Calm yourself sister Stand down for a moment Stand beside yourself instead of against yourself Look in the mirror and remind yourself I know who I am I have akhlaq I try not to harm anyone I am sincere in my intentions I am consistent in what I want I am here for marriage not games I am here for something real not something temporary I refuse to become careless simply because others were careless with me I refuse to become dishonest because others were dishonest I refuse to lose my character because others lost theirs Even after a hundred unanswered messages I remain myself Even after a thousand disappointments I remain myself Even after a million reasons to become cynical I remain myself Because my values do not depend on the behavior of others The Quran teaches us that perhaps we dislike something while it is good for us and perhaps we love something while it is bad for us for Allah knows and we do not know Sometimes the conversations that never happened the people who disappeared and the doors that closed are not punishments They are protection They are Allah redirecting us away from what would have hurt us and toward what is better for us The Prophet Muhammad ﷺ taught us that the strongest people are not those who never face disappointment but those who continue with patience faith mercy and beautiful character through it all So do not lose hope Do not measure your worth by replies messages matches attention or validation Measure it by your sincerity Measure it by your character Measure it by your relationship with Allah Because one day the right people will see what the wrong people overlooked and when they do they will not only appreciate your presence They will appreciate your heart And perhaps that is the connection we are all searching for A connection built on truth trust akhlaq mercy and the remembrance of Allah A connection that does not leave you questioning your worth but reminds you of it A connection that brings peace instead of confusion and light instead of doubt Until then keep your heart soft your standards high your faith strong and your hope alive For after every long night Allah brings the dawn and after every period of waiting Allah opens doors that no one could have imagined
اللهم ارزقنا الثبات على حسن الخلق ولا تجعل خذلان الناس يغير نقاء قلوبنا وارزقنا من يقدر قيمتنا ويحفظ ودنا ويعيننا على طاعتك واجعل لنا من كل تأخير حكمة ومن كل خيبة حماية ومن كل انتظار خيرا يفوق توقعاتنا واملأ قلوبنا نورا وأملا ويقينا بك
Ameen | Allah Knows Best | والله أعلم

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