All things marriage

Ladies: I'm a 41 yr old virgin, saved myself for marriage. Your thoughts on considering a virgin at this age? Should I consider virgins only also. Would you dislike this preference from a man if you can't offer this yourself?

Salam,

I’m Abdullah, 27, from Lahore. I’m a self-taught person who has learned most things in life through experience, responsibility, and figuring things out along the way.

I’d describe myself as someone who prefers a simple and peaceful life. I enjoy good conversations, a bit of humor, and moments that actually feel real. I like listening to podcasts, learning things that interest me, watching sports, and sometimes just unwinding with stand-up comedy. I believe life doesn’t always have to be serious being able to laugh matters.

I come from a very small, close-knit family just my mother and me. My father has passed away, and I don’t have any siblings. That’s shaped me into someone independent and responsible, and InshaAllah, I hope to grow this small family into something more complete with the right person.

I work in ride-hailing as a motorbike rider. My income is around 30,000 PKR, and I manage my life on my own. I live in a rented place, and Alhamdulillah, I also have a small plot in my name. I believe in earning honestly, living within my means, and building a stable future step by step.

I believe that a man is a provider, as that is his responsibility. However, I’m also realistic and understand that in today’s time, with rising inflation, a single income can be challenging. That’s why I’m looking for a partner who believes in teamwork someone who understands partnership and is willing to contribute alongside me so we can build a stable and decent life together with barakah.

For me, marriage is simple it’s about respect, understanding, and having someone by your side through life. I prefer a simple nikkah in a masjid, without unnecessary expectations or cultural pressure.

I’m looking for someone kind, loyal, and emotionally present someone who values connection, simplicity, and wants to build something real together, for both dunya and akhirah.

I’m not here for casual things. My intention is clear: something halal, meaningful, and leading to marriage.

If you feel we might understand each other, we can talk and see where it goes.

And honestly… there’s always more to a person than what you read here.

You all pathetic ugly fools keep your tradition and cultural values to yourself stop making a bad impression about Islam to new reverts stop acting like simps at least put some effort when reaching out to a woman, what hi hello wassup, dang , remember women are soft gentle beings, if you take those out women who are looking for well settled rich folks , the rest of the women only demand sincerity respect and effort let's break it down

What Respect means , you approach her respectfully ,talk to her respectfully you respect her boundaries, as you're just a stranger to her not a long lost love or prince charming shut up and act like a man show some courtesy of doing the bare minimum, take a no as a no be understandable of her situation don't be asking for pictures if she already has gee picture on her profile, socials, number etc on the first week it's a red flag until you basic understanding , , and do understand she also has business to handle it could be house chorse or work or anything else she ain't someone you hired be understanding, give her space ,

Then comes sincerity, talk business show her you are sincerely looking for something halal and meaningful connection, how do you do that you don't waste time you only approach someone once you go through there profile reading bio and interest and approach them only if you think you fancy her you have common interests and then it gets easier then you speak only business you ask important question, and those questions aren't these k ap kon SI caste say ha blah blah Bhai it's 2026 USKA Muslim hona or insan hona important ha , kher you ask her about her priorities, about her pov, perspectives on important things that matter to you things that you stand for things that you can't compromise on , for example, do you offer your 5 obligatory prayers? Do you do pardah if it matters to you, you-all better take notes it's a free lesson have some decency anyways this enough not getting paid 😅

Then comes effort, you put effort, you don't reply her after a few days you don't ghost her , you don't give one word answers you don't leave her on seen you let her feel seen heard ie this one goes for both actually men and women, I've had personal experiences where women doesn't puts any effort and I've to unmatch cause some match but don't bother putting effort or replying or don't know how to carry a conversation

This ain't it akhi rest try to figure out listen to some podcasts and videos regarding how to find your spouse and treat your spouse you-all need a lot of training

Last but not least

Remember if you deceive someones remember she's someone's daughter,sister and honor , karma is a (b i t c h ) what goes around comes around, it could be your daughter and sister too someday you won't stay young nor healthy nor in same position life goes by today you are smart strong cleaver tomorrow you'll be the opposite and then you'll be vulnerable too
I could go on but that's it will continue later I was fedup how women were complaining about men and I know it's been there for long time but seeing this on a Muslim metromorial app is heartbreaking

Hmmm hello 🤍
How are you?

as time passes, is there less high value men compared to women, or vice versa?

age 38 from Lahore I want nikha my WhatsApp number is 03454969680

Google I want to provide a solution to women in the Muzz dating app. Women who are currently in a mental state are not okay because they have a trauma of heartbreak with a Muslim man and now their minds are thinking that non-Muslim men have better characters than the Muslim man they met yesterday. Google in this application there are many Muslim men who are truly religious, even intelligent, and even have good jobs I have researched Google. Maybe the woman's fate was a little less good at that time. It is necessary to question her intention when looking for a husband in this application, did she want to be rich or did she want Allah to choose a husband for her according to her character or according to her prayers. So here I want to invite them to reflect in their heads imagining the world does not yet exist earth sky all does not exist only Allah and a creature called Qalam written in the Al Qalam surah. Google do you think after she imagines what I directed, is it possible she still says non-Muslim men are better than Muslim men. Google a person who believes in Islam truly understands the Islamic monotheism will not be able to think of non-Muslim men as better than Muslim men. Do you agree with my opinion, Google, that they need to question their monotheism, their hearts, their monotheistic bond to Allah, the God of Muslims.

Hello ✌