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Looking for perspectives:
Professional ambition vs. Personal values in a partner
I was super new to Muzz and tab I matched with a lawyer. We quickly moved from chatting on the app to a phone call. Looking back, it taught me a lot about figuring out "how soon is too soon" to share contact numbers. But the main thing that stayed with me was a conversation we had about career goals.
He mentioned that he would have loved to take on the defense case for Ajmal Kasab. When I asked him how he could want to represent someone responsible for so many innocent lives lost, his response was that it was about <CUSTOM_BOLD>fame and money</CUSTOM_BOLD><CUSTOM_BOLD>. He explained that handling such a massive, highly controversial case would skyrocket his career and profile.
As someone who holds my morals and principles close, this deeply uncomfortable perspective put me off completely. To me, defending someone for sheer financial gain and fame without prioritizing justice for the victims did not align with the kind of heart or values I am looking for in a lifelong partner.
Recently, I mentioned this to a close friend who is also a lawyer. Their take was interesting: they said the guy shouldn't have shared that with me because as a member of the general public, I wouldn't understand a lawyer’s professional point of view. This made me realize that even my friend found the logic professionally acceptable, even if it felt entirely wrong to me.
There is a difference between having a preference for a partner's profession, and looking at </CUSTOM_BOLD><CUSTOM_BOLD>how their values, morals, and career ethics align with Islamic principles.</CUSTOM_BOLD>
I am genuinely curious to hear your thoughts and know what are the other sides of the coin that i can't see yet.
I’m struggling to make sense of the unspoken favouritism or racism among Muzz users.
Is it allowed or forbidden?
I generally or culturally can’t accept certain race as my partner.
It’s not that I hate them. It’s more of culturally fit.
What are some advices and guidance re these.
Thanks
Please need your advices brothers and sisters a non muslim girl want for relationship i told is not allow in islam i only have to marry her before anything else, but she dont want marriage except secret marriage thats is the kind of ladies i have been coming across here and their profile is decent muslim name and photo but as we chat i understand she is not muslim what to do pleaee i dont want to start the journey that may not reach destiantion
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