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I'm looking for a single lady for marriage, I'm based in California and I work as an engineer,
What situations or circumstances bring Muslim men to resort to this app? I’m just curious, for me it’s a matter of boys around my area and community not being the greatest; compatibility or halal/haram wise. And also because of my height and religious standing it kinda makes them more intimidated and straying from interactions overall.
Edit: I forgot to add that men who are seemingly on their seen end up being the toxic sort and have history with abuse religiously or physically 💀
Am abdulrahmon by name am new here
I will be glad to meet a generous person to show me around lead me true how the app works and looking forward to lovely relationship that can lead to marriage sooner
SIGNS OF A LOSER
The biggest losers tend to place nafs, ego or others above Allah swt and His values (deen). Here are the four categories of loss one can engage in, when denying the truth.
Allah swt says:
HE IS #1
Winner: Believe in Him and His values.
Loser: Gets beliefs from other than Allah swt.
Biggest Loser: Believes others > or = Allah swt
X IS REQUIRED
Winner: X is beneficial for you and must be done.
Loser 1: Doesn't do X. Believes they know better.
Loser 2: Does X in an insincere manner.
Biggest Loser: Says X is not Required.
Y IS HALAL BUT NOT REQUIRED
Winner 1: Acknowledges as superior & is capable.
Winner 2: Knows it is superior but is incapable.
Loser 1: Does Y, though incompetent.
Loser 2: Makes Y seem repulsive.
Biggest Loser: Says Y is not possible (i.e halal)
Z IS HARAM
Winner: Stays away from Haram. It is harmful.
Loser 1: Does haram. Chooses delusion.
Loser 2: Invites others to harm.
Biggest Loser: Does both. Calls it halal/superior.
THE BIGGEST LOSERS
The biggest losers are (1) the ones who lie against Allah swt in their beliefs, ascribing "false superior" value to others' inferior values AND (2) choose (act on) what is inferior (haram or becomes unjust and selectively impermissible) AND (3) call others to it as well - increasing their sin AND (4) openly call it (lies) halal and superior.
All false actions stem from false belief.
Fix Belief (🫀) First.
Allah is enough for me.🌷🌷🌷
Al Qur’aan [9:129]
What do younger man see in older woman that they fall in love and get married together?