All things marriage

I always say from the very beginning of a conversation that I'm not in a rush to get married. I don't have a specific goal of getting married at a certain age or in a particular year.

However, my intention is clear. So, once I've matched with someone, after we've had a light conversation for a while and I see that the conversation is going well, I usually take the initiative to ask about his intentions, timeline, goals, and expectations for the process.

This is important to me because I don't want to waste my time or energy. Yes, many people join here with the intention of getting married, but a lot of them say they're not in a rush, and it often seems like they don't have a clear goal. Instead, they just want to see where things go.

That approach may work for some people, but it doesn't work for me. I believe that having clear goals and a timeline is important so that we can both be intentional about our conversations. I don't believe you can truly get to know someone just by asking what they like or dislike, or what they do on weekends or weekdays. I think meaningful conversations require going beyond those questions—discussing deeper topics, thinking critically, and being more intentional and mindful.

I'm aware that everyone has a different perspective, and I respect that. I just want to share mine.

“Sometimes it feels tough to find someone who truly reflects you or makes you feel whole. A genuine person who really wants something real isn’t easy to come by but I still believe the right person is out there.🤔

I’m into younger guys.. like 1-6/7 years younger
I’m 30 hehe

I hope none of us ever has to be in a relationship where we’re loved out of pity.

Ngl there’s no good people to marry on mus most are broken still and not healed and may lie about being divorced

This app was better couple years ago

Hello how

https://youtube.com/shorts/EecmEibiTyM?si=9HlvF3cFmnjiscKq

You have a calm ,non abusive husband that respects you a lot but yet you disobey him at the slightest
Your husband is your leader , treat and obey him like you will do to your father
Prophet once said if there was something else we can bow to except Allah , then he would’ve commanded wives to worship and bow down to their husbands
Dear sisters ,you won’t have a happy marriage if If you have a single atom of EGO or feminism in you that you can’t obey your husband!

Inflation got people planning dates like this. 💀