All things marriage

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I’m 27 and not married (I’ve never been married), but some of the things I read and hear genuinely scare me and make me hesitant about marriage.

Is it true some men are no longer attracted to their wives after they have children, is that really how they feel? Do they truly start desiring the “next young thing” that comes along?

Pregnancy and childbirth can change a woman’s body massively, and it takes an enormous physical and emotional toll. Surely a loving husband should recognise and appreciate the sacrifice his wife has made in carrying and giving birth to THEIR child.

Hearing stories like this honestly makes me:
A) feel put off marriage because I fear ending up with someone who thinks this way 😭
B) feel anxious about having children and how I would be viewed afterwards - imagine sacrificing my body and health to be left feeling this way.

I know every person and marriage is different, but these stories can be really unsettling. They are definitely negative thoughts that need to be pushed out but I just feel like social media, easy access and opportunities for these lustful acts put me off altogether. Why put myself in a position where I could be made a fool and left worse than alhamdulilah where I am now.

Can you all tell me what do you want in your future partner ? And what is a deal breaker for you?

🌸السلام عليكم ورحمه الله وبركاته
💖Alhamdulillah for everything 💖
My name is Md. Nahid Ahmed.
Oh my darling... a few lines for you,

Aharnishi, whose separation I grieve for,
The source of all my joy,
The only cure for my suffering
You are the throne of my lonely night,
My wealth, my love, my moonlight.
My most faithful friend, my soul,
My sultana, my only love. You are the throne of my lonely night,
My wealth, my love, my moonlight.
My most faithful friend, my soul,
My sultana, my only love. The most beautiful of beauties...
My springtime, my smiling darling,
My daylight, my heart, my smiling leaves...
My flower, my honey, my rose,
The only one in this world who doesn't hurt me. I will always sing your praises.
Lover of a heart in pain,
Beloved of tearful eyes, I am happy.

Love is beautiful.
It may be what brings two hearts together.
But mercy is what keeps them together when life becomes difficult.
There will be days when your spouse is tired. Days when you are misunderstood. Days when you both fall short of the expectations you had.
In those moments, love alone may not always feel enough.
Mercy says, I know you are not perfect, and neither am I.
Mercy chooses kind words over harsh ones. It forgives when it can. It listens before it judges. It remembers that every soul carries burdens we cannot always see.
Perhaps this is why Allah mentions love and mercy together.
Love may begin the journey. But mercy is often what carries a marriage through the storms.
May Allah fill our hearts with both, and make us a source of peace for the people we love. Ameen.

Good morning.
I'm looking for a serious person to marry.
I'm divorced with a 4-year-old daughter
and financially stable.
I'm looking for someone close to my age who is also mature and understands married life.
I hope she's from Iraq.

Everyone talks about what a real man is but what defines a real woman

I'm really tired of looking for a real bride here. I can't find anyone serious about marriage. I don't know what to do now. I've had an emergency marriage.?

Why i m finding a eurpean women for marriage
if u no agree then tell me i will delete this post
1.because Asian women must marriage with a man who have own house and aloot money and mostly women's no get married because of this condition and become old
after get married also they allow to physical relationship with their demands like money and other needs and also wife no intrasted in phisical relationship
and also thy involve thir sister or mother in this life,s daily matters
2. Indonesia and Malaysia women's want all expenses of marriage from groom and also a big g amount for her self thats groom pay and its no haq mahar
its another money thats is their culture but some other people feel like sale and buy girl but its their culture
Morocco and tunesia and algeria women's also same condition of asian
3.at then end eurpean women
eurpean women try to enjoy their present and speak straight
also no demand of money for marriage no any hiden condition no any after demand for physical relationship and also partispate physical relationship thats is good for mental health of both partners
and also thy like privacy
no sister or mother will involve in thir personal matters
thats y our asian praffer women's of eu for marriage
hopefully all will get answers and plz dont hate me because i just explain on my own experience and maybe its wrong

Really hard to find people that communicate properly, last two matches replied once every 48hrs lmao, can't find a wife at all on this app 💀