All things marriage

Life is busy happening out there but you're too afraid to make any move, so you hide behind your phone and its perceived security and anonynimity. While people who are serious about life are out there making moves and going after what they want in real time. You're not gonna find a spouse because some fancy tech-guy on the internet created an app to delude you into believing you are actually making an effort towards finding love. Truth is..you can order Mcdonalds or Tacos from the comfort of your livingroom but you can't order a person who is supposed to share their whole lives with you the same way. We have dehumanised people by placing them on a catalogue like a menu we chose from and have ❌️'s and ticks ✅️ to establish their worthiness. And then we expect that sort of violation to result into a deep meaningful lifelong relationship. We are deeply misguided and detouched from reality.

No one is more cherished in this world than someone who lightens the burden of another.

Mufti Menk
Thursday
24th Muharram 1448
9th July 2026

𝗧𝗛𝗘 𝗠𝗔𝗡 𝘄𝗵𝗼 𝗮𝘀𝗸𝘀 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴𝘀 𝗼𝗿 𝘁𝗿𝗮𝗶𝘁𝘀 𝗶𝘀, 𝗶𝗻 𝗺𝘆 𝘀𝗲𝗻𝘀𝗲, 𝗪𝗘𝗔𝗞. 😈✌🏽🍓🤲😎👻🌸

Because i'm the type of person who gets jealous easily and can't hide it, i always pray to be with someone who isn't obsessed with other women, someone who doesn't go around liking other girls posts, doesn't follow random girls, has truly moved on from their past, and chooses me as their one and only, not just one of many ✨

This is a beautiful reminder about marriage 💜

You will observe with concern how long a useful truth may be known and exist before it is generally received and practiced on.

Sis, get ready… your future husband is going to love on you, protect you, and spoil you like crazy. 🥹💍👑

🚨 Public Service Announcement to my fellow ladies 🚨😂

So... I have three phones and three different accounts on this dating app. (Don't ask questions. I'm doing field research at this point. 🤣)

Imagine my surprise when I realized the same set of men are in all three of my DMs, saying the same "Hello beautiful 😍", "I've never met someone like you," and "I'm here for something serious." 😂

My brothers, at least change the script na! 😭

They're busy touring ladies' inboxes like they're on a nationwide campaign, not knowing they're still talking to... me. 🤦🏽‍♀️

At this point, I feel we ladies should start a "Wanted: Serial DM Visitors" list. 😂 If your name enters that list, just know we've seen your ministry in action.

Dear sisters, if you see someone who seems to be everywhere at once, just shine your eyes. Not everyone in your DM is looking for love—some are just collecting conversations like loyalty points. 😭😂

May we all find people who are intentional... and may the professional DM tourists retire in peace. Amen. 🤲😂

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