All things marriage

Assalamu alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh.

They say marriage has its ups and down. True but it should never take away "muaddah and rahma" as it states in the Holy Qur'an. Muaddah is a special kind of love. Rahma or mercy is truly beautiful.

No one should tolerate rape, sexual abuse, slavery, mental health issues, and physical violence.

Prove to me that Allah ta'ala said you should live with these enlisted pains in your life?

Marriage is about peace. If the peace is gone then the purpose of marriage is gone and its time to say 'Auf Wiedersen."

My ex father in law and I from my first marriage were great friends but they obsessively loved their son to prevent violence after he drunk alcohol or was craving alcohol.

He used to beat me and forget about it but he never forgot the home address he was never paying rent for. He seemed to remember where he slept at peace and free food because he paid zilch.

Don't worry brothers and sisters, Islam has something called Kifarah (Karma). All that money my ex saved and it was £42k in 12 months got stolen by his 3rd wife when he remarried. He is on his 5th wife now. No joke and his parents don't say anything. Awww precious son.

I've gone through so much in my life. I pray my rank is special in the akhirah. Time to fight with Allah ta'ala in my salah yet again.

I pray Allah ta'ala eases the suffering of those who need Allah ta'ala the most, ameen. And remember, Islam is about peace and if that is gone in a marriage then say goodbye straight away.

There's police and there's domestic violence refuges and there's benefits or welfare. YOU CAN start again.

Don't be like me and wake up with bruises.

Alhamdulillah, it's the past now.

JazakAllahukhairan for reading and share your story.

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How can we judge people for their choices, when we know nothing about their options?

Efforts are useless if you're not the person they want

When Allāh ﷻ loves you, He may test you with...

• Poverty.
• Sickness.
• Delayed marriage.
• Loss of a loved one.
• Rejected duʿāʾs (for a time).
• Loneliness.
• Anxiety and sadness.
• Trials in your family.
• Financial hardship.
• Betrayal by those you trusted.

Not every hardship is a punishment. Sometimes it is Allāh preparing you, purifying you, and raising your rank.

May Allāh ﷻ grant us beautiful ṣabr during every test, strengthen our īmān, ease our hardships, and make every trial a means of drawing us closer to Him and entering Jannatul-Firdaws...
AMEEN ❤️

Raja Raad✍

I used to see the Millennials, Senior Borthers they used to have affiar or talk to their potential for a short period of time and bring matters to their parents/inlaws. If they didn't agree, then they would simply run off and get married without even the plan of renting a house(simply manage to live in of the their parents/inlaws house or close relative's home). They would simply manage it afterwards and fast forward 20 years, they have happy and successful married life.

However, the current situation seems like people would like to know each other for few years, expect good financial background, must throw a fancy and expensive wedding,rent a seperate house, explore 10 different countries, live an expensive lifestyle , complain and then end up divorcing after sometime down the line of marriage putting the blame on mental peace and abuse. There are even times that people would reject marriage saying my parents dont agree even after talking for years!

What is wrong with this current generation? The current marriage requirements is to ask more and give less(from both men and womens side). The previous generation never asked, they used to marry and take all the burden, but people nowadays , peole can't really accept the fact that marrige comes with burden and you have to withstand that. People just want to enjoy marriage without putting in an effort.

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Everyone dreams of finding the perfect partner. But real love isn't about perfection—it's about finding someone who chooses compassion over ego, understanding over judgment, and kindness over being right. The right person won't make life flawless, but they'll make every challenge feel lighter because you'll never have to face it alone.

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