All things marriage

544 followers...Came to get married..
Now I feel like I'm gonna become a muzz-fluencer... YIKES..!
And the number of haters that I have are double the number of followers... lol.. whyyyy muzz whyyy.??!!🥲🥲

Hello everyone hope you are good !

Hi 🫠🙈

Hi, I want a foreign husband 💍

Am I in the wrong

I’ve been talking to someone long‑distance for a year. I flew out to meet him, met his whole family, and we were seriously discussing marriage. He even gave me an engagement ring and talked about our future together. When I returned home, everything still seemed good he was talking about plans, living together, and building a life.

Then out of nowhere, on a random Wednesday, he started ignoring me. By the end of the day he told me I “deserve someone better,” that his financial situation is bad, and he needs to rebuild his life. I told him I didn’t care about that — that we could build together and I wasn’t going anywhere. But he kept saying “I can’t right now,” without giving me a straight answer. He ignored all my calls and messages for days. I cried for a week.

A friend suggested I travel just to clear my mind because I couldn’t function. I went to Spain for a few days. Even there, I wasn’t okay — I was still hurting.

He eventually texted me asking how I was. I told him I wasn’t okay. He said he wasn’t okay either. I asked if he still had interest in being together and he said yes, he wants marriage with me but that he “needed to know a few things from me” first, without explaining what he meant.

Then he saw my location in Spain and got upset, assuming I went with another man. He said I should’ve told him I was leaving. But he had ignored me for 14 days — no calls, no check‑ins, nothing. He told me he couldn’t talk to me anymore and disappeared without warning. So I didn’t understand why he expected me to update him.

he’s also angry at me for traveling now he is ignoring me again while I was heartbroken over him. I don’t know if I’m in the wrong for taking a trip to cope after he ghosted me.

Unpopular opinion.
But I’m going to just say it.

The nicer I be to people on here or the more genuine I try to make a conversation!

The bigger the scum I uncover.

I have no issues being incompatible with anyone!

But the thing I will never understand is midway through a conversation just deleting and blocking you with zero explanation!

And here is the funniest trend - most of this comes from divorced women with kids….
Now correct me if I’m wrong as someone who is willing to accept your past and all your baggage the least you can do is string together a coherent sentence? Or take a few seconds to think how you may have potentially created your own current situation to find yourself on an app and still clueless how less of an option you are to men? I understand single women who are still struggling to comprehend what the concept of communication and marriage is but surely after a failed marriage and a kid you may have some sense of communication?

Having said this I am totally against the idea of connecting with any divorced woman with kids! - it’s like seeing all the warnings signs and giving false hope to a known failure!

Hi !

Hi ! ❤️

Assalamu alaikum my future wife 💞

I think humans have a very limited number of potential soulmates that the universe will try to guide us towards. And it’s up to both souls to accept the soulmate relationship. But if one rejects for whatever reason, perhaps due to unhealed trauma or insecure attachment style, then the universe continues to guide us towards our next potential soulmate.

There are some individuals that reject ALL soulmate options that they’ve been blessed with finding in their lifetime, and then they have no more possible soulmates to choose from. They then spend the rest of their life longing to find such a spark and amazing connection like the soulmates they encountered in their lifetime. But they never end up finding such a connection.