All things marriage

PERSPECTIVE
(PLEASE SHARE UR EXPERIENCE)

Mine below

Assalamo alaykom

BEGINNING
-Joined April 8th, 2026
-I have a certain aesthetic/ religious and lifestyle preference - (most likely outside my culture)

LIKES
-I received about 200+ likes so far
-out of those I would say there’s possibly 10 max that r somewhat potential to consider but only 3 that r realistic potential and only 1 out of those 3 was enough for me to think I can maybe marry this girl (all on paper from profile and picture)
-That one girl, I liked her back, we texted, spoke once on audio call but communication fell afterwards (my best analysis is some of the practices of mixed gatherings in her culture were point of unease or possible mismatch, but not really sure)

SEARCHES
-I searched 200+ or maybe much more, not sure
-Found about 20 high potentials and crudely scoring on (aesthetic, lifestyle and deen) and in hindsight I would say they sit very likely at the 8-9/10 individuals of this app
-Sent about 10 compliments (stating interest in polite and appropriate manner) - All rejected (and I take it humbly as they must absolutely be drowning in male potentials to pic from but equally I lean towards marrying outside my culture but lots of girls might not and that’s a major possible factor)

COMPLIMENTS
-About 20+ not even sure, from random pure compliments to compliments on my profile, to interest and most seemed genuine interest
-Unfortunately non were what I was looking for, despite some being decent candidates

It truly has been an eye opening, growth stimulating and rich experience

May Allah make it easy …

May Allah grant us spouses that are the coolness of our eyes …

Ameen

Hi 🔥

Where are the high value girls/women ?! … I only see mediocre and below :(

influencer girls be like:
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follow me on instagram🐷
unmatched💔

I break a myth here ‼️

I see many men posting - That Men marry woman from less financially stable families easily
But never see a Woman marrying Less Earning Man.
The Reason Why woman hesitate to Marry a Less Earning Man is because - Men Can’t handle a woman at Prime or More successful than him.
She will spend more - you will stop - Fight will happen. Her lifestyle will become a problem.
That’s the reason why Most men - prefer to marry woman with Less financials or equal.
Also Men family itself would find it hard - You own a Corolla - Girl father owns BMW.
Men family itself won’t go for Rishta.
It’s all about Handling the women 👍

Salam any peshawari hindko syed here against my match ?

i am from Lahore I need life partner my age is 38 I run my own busines. father mother death I am living alone if you serious then msg me...
this my WhatsApp number+923454969680

Hi

I was talking to a really nice person, and it was going well. But out of nowhere she deleted her profile and now here I am without contact with her for a long time. Sometimes I wonder if this happened because of something I said or if she wasn't ready for marriage.

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