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Serious note: how are you girls struggling to find a man when you have a minimum of 50 guys asking for your hand? Are you very picky or is the market cooked on your side too?

Us lads have a simple requirement - a beautiful chaste wife on her deen. Simples but it seems that those 3 qualities are never found on one person at the same time 😑

I went on a matcha date he asked me if I wanted white chocolate I said Yh he payed and we sat in the car BUT now he was talking about his ex for a whole 12mins and I kept it straight and I told him I think u haven’t gotten over her this man had the audacity to say “yh true but I just need to talk to other girls to keep her out of my mind” I have to act like I have diarrhoea and leave that car asap I’m I wrong for this?😂😂😂

nice!!!!! last post got everyone unsending in my dms

very funny 👌🏼 nice one
ha ha

Who’s gonna test these out???

I'm seeing such a rapid change in women's mindset...
It's not that women don't want to get married. We do. But the trade off, the perks of marriage, are so poor compared to what you can get out of a single life and a good friend circle. Majority of us are living very good lives alhamdolillah. Good health, good education, good jobs, good pay, good family relationships, good friends. We want men for that extra-ness. The companionship, physical and emptional wants.
So when a man who matches our standard of living shows up, its so exciting! But then comes the lack, the baggage... he's going to be 1 of 3 for sure, either financially, emotionally or mentally unstable. He hasn't worked on himself, and you got to hold his hand through it. Which is fine, that's marriage right. But they always lead with the lack, why do they do that... Their demands indicating the obvious insecurities that need work. Have you all noticed, men always come with demands. I think to myself, who gave them this confidence that someone will accomodate you at their expense? Where does the entitlement come from?
So then, you start to make a pros and cons list, not for him , rather life with him and life without him. And the life without him just ain't that bad anymore 🤷🏿‍♀️ You realise you can empathise with people, you don't have to marry them. Once you're sorted, you just don't want someone who isn't.
The knight in shining armour truly is a thing of the past, for women AND now, men.

a lil bit of racism and misogyny didn't hurt anyone, there's a lil bit of truth to it usually, denying the truth always hurts though

A woman can tell the quality of conversation from the first greeting. Brothers who one line and ‘wuu2’ are setting themselves up to fail.

Do you ever feel like Jamaa is a simulation of our ideal lives?
Fake/Filtered/AI photos
Bragging about “my house/my car/my salary/my expensive belongings/my lifestyle”.
Everyone is so content with displaying this unreal, ideal, flawless self to the World.

If you're fat or ugly your opinion means nothing

Why do hijabis wear so much make up tho? And non hijabis usually have bare face im noticing .. the non hijabis are giving more conservative modest vibes than some hijabis ijs