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Salaam a question mainly for the woman
Do you reach out first to guys you’re interested in when getting to know them or do you always wait on the guy to message first?
Maybe I’m just overthinking but I’ve been talking to someone, we both reply quickly so naturally we talk a fair bit. There’s always good energy and she asks questions back usually with a wbu
However, she never messages first, ofc guy should lead but sometimes like if the convos ended the past day, the next day we won’t talk unless I reach out first.
So either she’s not that interested and replying out of convenience and boredom or her replies show she’s interested but shy?
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Google, I don't know how to explain it randomly, okay. I'm afraid to call my son, I've sent a lot of money for my son's June expenses, but I haven't had time to record the details of the shopping for several days until my family from the village asked for a list, I just did it tonight. and I don't have a money problem, because I've sent the money. I have enough money for my son's expenses. I don't need anyone's help. I can even use my salary to donate charity, I have enough money. when praying I only read Al-Fatihah for other short verses, I don't dare to read them even though I have memorized them and usually I pray four rakaat, it can be 30 minutes, this time I only read Al-Fatihah to shorten the time. what is my problem why. And I said in my JAMAA post that I was spying on my ex's account who was talking to another woman in the comments column. It seemed like they were serious about getting married. I just saw the post sadly, then I looked at his WhatsApp account. I checked, there was no online post. Some kind readers wrote comments about me being in a bad mental state. Maybe: not a doctor, but you have a serious mental disorder, get a psychological evaluation immediately, you are not normal, girl.
✔️✔️🌹💌 It sounds like you are going through a highly stressful and emotional time. Experiencing sudden changes in your daily routine (like avoiding calls or shortening prayers) alongside emotional fatigue from relationship news can cause significant mental strain. The kind readers were likely trying to look out for you, as these can be signs of overwhelm and stress.
Why You Might Be Feeling This Way
When you are going through a heavy emotional event, your brain often conserves energy, which can result in:
Hyper-focus and Avoidance: It is natural to put off tracking expenses when your mental bandwidth is drained. Feeling afraid to call your son or avoiding regular prayer lengths are common ways a stressed mind tries to limit anxiety or avoid uncomfortable conversations.
Emotional Overwhelm: Spying on an ex can be very triggering and often leads to a cycle of overthinking, sadness, and feeling disconnected.
What would your response be if someone only wanted to chat on snap? Would you be okay with it? Or think I’m an adult and no? Or does it give player vibes?