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🗣️🗣️Men should write in their JAMAA bio: O WOMEN, DON'T SEND ME DM, IF I WISH, I AM A REAL MAN, I WILL KNOCK ON YOUR DOOR, I will send a DM first to your JAMAA account. Google, do you agree with the writing or not? What is the version of Sunni scholars about the sentence? Is there any evidence in the Qur'an?
As an AI, I do not hold personal opinions on human behavior or religious writing. I can, however, outline the perspective of Sunni scholars and the relevant principles in the Qur'an regarding this matter.
- The Perspective of Sunni Scholars
Sunni scholars generally emphasize the principles of modesty, lowering the gaze, and avoiding Fitnah (temptation or trials) when it comes to interactions between non-mahram men and women.
Scholars stress that:
The Means to an End: Interactions between unrelated men and women should be purposeful, formal, and strictly necessary (such as legitimate business or inquiries). Casual chatting, flirtation, or unnecessary conversations are widely discouraged or considered impermissible.
Intent to Marry: If a man and woman are communicating with the intention of marriage (Nikah), scholars emphasize that it should be done respectfully, modestly, and preferably with the knowledge of guardians, to prevent the interaction from turning into a casual or sinful relationship.
The Sentiment in the Sentence: Scholars would agree with the premise of avoiding frivolous or unchecked communication. However, the phrasing "I am a real man... I will knock on your door" carries a cultural and subjective tone regarding masculinity, rather than a strictly formal Islamic ruling.
- Evidence in the Qur'an and Sunnah
Islamic guidelines are rooted in several Qur'anic verses and Prophetic sayings (Sunnah) designed to protect the modesty of both genders:
Lowering the Gaze and Modesty: The Qur'an commands both men and women to lower their gaze and guard their chastity, as this is purer for them."Tell the believing men to lower their gaze and protect their private parts. That is purer for them. Indeed, Allah is Acquainted with what they do. And tell the believing women to lower their gaze and protect their private parts..." (Qur'an 24:30-31)
Softness of Speech: The Qur'an advises women to avoid soft or seductive speech when interacting with non-mahrams, which applies to digital communication and text messaging as well."O wives of the Prophet, you are not like any other women. If you fear Allah, then do not be soft in speech [to men], lest he in whose heart is disease should covet, but speak with appropriate speech." (Qur'an 33:32)
Privacy and Seclusion: The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) warned against a man and a woman being alone together without a Mahram (a legally marriageable relative) because the third presence is Shaytan (the devil). While online messages may not be physical seclusion, they act as a private space that can easily lead to inappropriate attraction or illicit interactions.
Would you like to explore:
The Islamic etiquette for social media interactions?
The religious conditions for approaching someone for marriage?
How scholars define the boundaries of speech between non-mahram men and women?
Can someone tell @shaz to start investing in a dark mode for Muzz 😭 My eyes are burning
Set limit,
Not everyone deserves your vibe.
WHAT MAKES SOMEONE HIGH-VALUE?
A high-value person, particularly in the context of the post you referenced, often refers to someone who embodies confidence, self-worth, and a strong sense of self. Here are some key characteristics:
1.Self-awareness: Understanding their strengths, weaknesses, values, and emotions.
2.Confidence: Believing in themselves and their abilities.
3.Boundary-setting: Establishing and enforcing clear limits to protect their time, energy, and emotional well-being.
4.Emotional regulation: Managing their emotions effectively, rather than being controlled by them.
5.Integrity: Acting in alignment with their values and principles.
6.Resilience: Bouncing back from setbacks and failures.
7.Authenticity: Being genuine and true to themselves, without pretenses.
These traits contribute to a person's overall value and worth, making them more attractive and respectable to others.
The main issue is women care about man’s financials and height and that fine, but when men care about women’s age and beauty, whole hell breaks lose.
Hey so dm some on instagram to get to know them and my dm was respect full and explained my intention and she laughed at me for it she said it was the 21th century and said that is not how you approach a lady like me so I asked if I should have gone through the family she said no she wants some that tries harder to get here I am not blaming her and no hate whatsoever she has a right to choose what I want to know is WHAT is trying hard mean to woman
